2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Women use this technique, even if they have access to orgasm during masturbation and have experience of getting it with another partner. It happens that he also is with the current partner, it just does not happen with every sexual intercourse. But, at the same time, they still prefer to create the illusion of the received peak of pleasure.
Commonly cited reasons:
- so as not to violate a man's self-esteem, not to cause a feeling of guilt and the feeling that he is a bad lover;
- fear of being non-sexual in his eyes and, accordingly, becoming uninteresting for sexual interaction, and maybe even for relationships in general.
In both cases, there is a fear of rejection.
This is a very important topic, but let's leave these worries aside for now. Let's focus on the fact that the woman does not get pleasure, secrets appear, dissatisfaction and tension in the couple grows. I want to have sex less and less and it becomes more for the fulfillment of duty and serving.
If you want to change this, here are some things to look out for:
♦ ️ Rely on your feelings. Are you agreeing too quickly to intercourse? Is the excitement enough? Are there enough caresses, hugs and kisses that affect the erogenous zones, gradually increasing desire? Is there flirting, seduction and anticipation of the process?
♦ ️ Rely on bodily sensations. Is the bodily stimulation of the erogenous zones responsible for the onset of orgasm appropriate / sufficient? Can you help yourself? Can you ask how you want?
♦ ️ Sex education. If 3 out of 5 sexual intercourses end with an orgasm in a woman - this is normal! In the other 2 cases, it may not be there. This is due to the characteristics of the female body. And nothing needs to be imitated
♦ ️ Relationships. Why do you need to play games with your closest person? Find an opportunity to tell your partner about your difficulty. For example, you might say that your feelings have changed and you want to look for other ways to enjoy yourself. Explore your sexuality together.
♦ ️ Again relationship. Think about whether you have a deeper reason to do this to your partner? Resentment, anger, disappointment, disgust? Do you want a close relationship with him at all and what prevents this? Do you have the right to refuse sex when you don't feel like it? Do you feel loved, do you trust? And if there is something like that, then this is a reason to talk. And this conversation will, of course, not be about sex.
And further. If there is never an orgasm at all, this is a reason to consult a sex therapist and a sexologist psychologist. In the event that you intend to do something about it.
If you still run into fears and shame, then the therapist will help you deal with this.
And remember that sex is a process of getting mutual pleasure, mutual intimacy and maximum sincerity!
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