Treason Web

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

When the unimaginable happens in a couple. When He or She finds out about the betrayal, a crack is heard in the soul, as if the rib that protected the heart had broken. The world ceases to be safe, flawless and bright.

It seems that a loved one has not just changed, but even changed in his face. Or, as it is often said, he opened his dark side. But what really happened?

Conscious betrayal, blow in the stomach. Deciding on such a thing is not so easy. For the first time, for sure. But it happened at his or her request, consciously and irreversibly. Was this in the character of a person before? More likely yes than no. Could the nature of the relationship have led to such a course of events? Rather yes than no. Could treason be prevented? Of course not!

What broke then? It seems there is a reason for treason. Why did it happen? Of course they are, but this is the case when the consequences are more important than the causes.

Faced with betrayal, She or He decides for herself to forget about the betrayal or forget the name of a loved one. Such extreme options are very difficult to accept, because the connection with another is not just a thread or even a rope.

A love affair is a fishing net in which many old boots and goldfish are entangled. And even the decision to leave may not get out of these networks. Forgiveness most often takes you into the abyss of a showdown for decades. How to be?

When you hear that treacherous crunch of treason, try to look into your soul. What happened there? What ideal is broken? What do you feel? What kind of music sounds in a devoted heart?

It is difficult to turn away from what happened and look at yourself. It was not me who changed it! Betrayed me!

But only in your soul you can decide what to do next.

Treason is a small loss. Everyone loses their own. Who loses the ideal of a relationship, who is the ideal of a companion, and for whom it is the collapse of their own ideality. All this is experienced in different ways.

You can continue looking for an ideal partner or sculpt from your ex. The illusion of family, the illusion of love can be further created.

The hardest thing to go through is changing the way you look at yourself.

The ability to trust the world is torn first - it seems that you will not be able to trust anyone else.

The first person to stop loving is not a traitor. When they cheat, we often stop loving ourselves. We find absolute confirmation that loving yourself is not worth it. It turns out that the betrayal of a loved one turns into a betrayal of oneself.

Love loses its meaning, and life follows it.

But like a forest fire, all living things are reborn. And if you manage to curl up into yourself and rethink what happened. Take your time, without blaming yourself or him, pause and keep loving yourself.

It will turn out to trust and love again, regardless of forgiveness or expulsion of the traitor. After all, before you fall in love with someone, you must never stop loving yourself.