2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Of course, this also takes into account the cycle of luck that has come and other details. But basically, most people care about where and how they could make money.
In my practice, it sometimes happens that the person has chosen the wrong job in life and has managed to make a career, which means that he will not want to leave, despite the fact that it is hard for him there: his health is lame, his bosses are pressing, he gets tired very much, there is little pleasure, etc. - frequent signs of an incorrectly chosen Path.
Here, of course, everything is individual. In general, I never cease to be amazed, analyzing the cards, how well people's intuition works, although some argue that it does not exist at all. They manage to compensate for the imbalance with such little things, which is simply amazing. About them below.
How does it happen that some people choose the wrong Path? For the same imbalance. If you imagine that you are a scale and you have more energies on one pan than on the other, then you will most likely be pulled there.
Then such a person, with a wrongly chosen job that takes up most of his active life, intuitively begins to look for a “way out” to balance or compensation.
I want to note again, IT IS IMPORTANT TO PAY ATTENTION TO THE SMALLS IN YOUR LIFE, because they contain happiness
The right hobby
Yes, yes, one of the little things that many neglect! Very often, a person who has chosen the wrong job intuitively chooses the right hobby. For example, a marketing executive or a chief accountant who has made a career feel great as an artist and designer in their spare time. This stabilizes them in terms of happiness and health.
As a rule, they are not going to give up their hobby. And there is no such thing that bothered. This suggests that their subconscious mind dictates to them to adhere to the correctly chosen Path.
It happened in my practice that a person at work in a high position only exists, sits out hours, and his whole life is in a hobby that he likes and captures him and even brings some income.
I tell him: “It is better to leave work and go into a hobby. The income may be unstable and small, but as soon as you free up energy for hobbies, things will go uphill."
But it so happened that these were people after 35 years old and they had families. Alas, their heads could not fit how one could now leave a warm, stable place for the sake of dubious activity, which “does not bring the required income”.
If they took a chance and believed in themselves …..
Correctly chosen colors, certain patterns of behavior, food…
And this is also important! Once there was a woman, also in a high position, who had no time for anything but work. And, accordingly, I was looking for other ways of compensation for her. The hobby disappeared. When it came to flowers and I told her to surround herself with green, her eyes widened a lot.
We had a Skype consultation and, to my question, what's the matter, she just started turning the laptop around the room. Everything was green! Curtains, carpet, wallpaper, even pillows on the bed.
She told me that the nursery had done everything in green tones. She felt more comfortable this way. Of course, fortunately, such despair is rare when you have to adjust to the little things in order to equalize the imbalance.
I have met both severe engineers, vegetarians, and people with strange, at first glance, addictions in food (although they are necessary for balance and are chosen intuitively!), Etc.
Behavior patterns, certain character traits and their upbringing in themselves also play a big role. Such seemingly negative character traits as stubbornness, inflexibility, coldness, callousness, selfishness or self-centeredness, as well as habits for which many have remorse, such as eating well, eating a lot and / or expensive, sleeping comfortably in a good bed, and nothing else, laziness, desire to buy something pleasant for the last money….- all this can ultimately turn out to be very useful for a person with an intuitive striving for balance in life.
For example, I met a person who was quite kind and flexible, who was very fond of sitting on the neck of all and sundry and substituting or substituting in the professional and other spheres (unhealthy competition). Well, that’s just the way things went in his life.
I advised him to cultivate some character traits, shall we say, which are negatively perceived by the public majority, but it would be easier for him to periodically throw off unnecessary burdens with them and bypass unnecessarily insolent competition. At first, he was horrified, said that he could offend people with such behavior, although he had thought about such a pattern more than once, but did not dare.
The fear of offending others prevented him from living happily in essence. And when he learned to say "no" and in some things (which they tried to take away from him and which were important for his happiness) to show aggressiveness, life began to gradually improve.
I repeat in almost every article I write that it is very important to listen to yourself and be careful about listening to other people's opinions about yourself.
Each person is individual and there is no general rule of life that works equally well for each person.
Before you spread rot on yourself or beat yourself on the hands for attempts to take some actions, it is better to try to listen to yourself and understand how YOU would be comfortable and pleasant to live, and then look, if something in life changes for the better for you, then your actions are correct.
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