2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The times when "there was no sex" in our country are long gone!
By the way, I well remember that very "teleconference" between the USSR and the USA, when this imperishable phrase was uttered!
Sex is now much talked about and written about, and some young and educated men continue to behave like Neanderthals.
Increasingly, I receive requests from women that they have a complete misunderstanding in this area with their husband:
- there are no publics,
- biorhythms do not match,
- needs for frequency and regularity vary.
At the same time, a woman is trying to do something - she turns to
- psychologist,
- sexologist,
- gynecologist,
and the husband is sure that if there are no difficulties with an erection, then everything is in order with him, and let the "frigid" wife deal with her problems herself.
- Such men do not bother with hugs and kisses.
- They, banally, rape a wife, tired of work and household chores, who is not ready for intercourse.
- And in the case of a severe refusal from the wife, they are offended and say not pleasant words:
- You are cold, frigid, not sexy!
For some reason, during the candy-bouquet period, a man, trying to win the girl he liked, behaved differently.
Why does a couple disappear from the life of a couple after the wedding?
- romance,
- compliments,
- games?
It is important to understand that sex in a family is not a hunt, but the culmination of love and tenderness, if, of course, they still remain between these two people. And the wife is not a trophy, but a fragile creature and she needs, first of all, affection and care.
Women who are sexually abused in the family often intuitively tend to hide their attractiveness behind comfortable, but not erotic clothes or even overweight, which seems to help "keep the line".
Then the man begins to lose interest in his wife, seeing in her only a friend, mistress or mother of his children.
Gradually, even the most faithful men begin to look for sex on the side.
This is how relationships of people who once loved each other die.
Important
- do not be silent
- do not accumulate resentment and discontent in the soul,
- but to talk and discuss together everything that worries each of the partners.
If a spark of past love still glimmers in the extinguished fire of passion - not all is lost!
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