Who Is To Blame And What To Do?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

For a very long time I want to write on the topic of relations between the state and the person. I will emphasize that this is precisely the relationship between the system and the person. Recently, I myself have been confronted with outright impudence on the part of the system. And in the environment I see similar processes. And since I actively use social networks, I also see numerous discussions of this issue there

Attention, dear citizens of the CIS countries. It concerns you.

This is always a mutual question. We and the system are responsible for what is happening in the service sector at the present time.

The question has become very acute, since the society has changed a lot.

I and my peers are no longer ready to turn a blind eye to humiliating service.

And to name it somehow differently does not work. This is an exclusively psychological problem.

And here are a few aspects:

1. We are the children of our parents. Therefore, we have passed from generation to generation the morality "you can't be bad." This is a huge taboo. If I write a complaint, I am bad, and you cannot be bad. No way, no way. What if the doctor is fired or fined because of me? This is not good!

While it will be massive, do not expect quality.

2. Freebie effect. That's what I call it. Maybe there is another name. The state pays for you, you pay nothing - no matter what the doctor's salary is. YOU don’t pay anything - it’s strange to demand quality. Taxes are already crooked-oblique-roundabout ways. It's not directly. It matters, ironically. And then, not everyone pays taxes. And everyone in the kitchen is outraged.

From the side of the doctor - the patient did not pay him anything directly, he is also dissatisfied, such a bastard. Why would a doctor be polite?

Is the doctor obliged to be polite? Well, don't tell fairy tales. A young doctor comes to the clinic and tries to be good. And then - he either turns into a ghoul, the system infects him, or leaves.

When I realized that I would soon become an orc ghoul, I left school.

3. Generation change. Change takes time, it's a fact. Not just new people should appear, but new personalities, with different beliefs in their heads.

Therefore:

1. Write complaints and allow yourself to be angry. Writing complaints is not snitching, it's okay!

2. If you do not like the doctor, change him, change the clinic, consult for a fee, do not sit on the fifth point exactly. Your health is your responsibility, not uncle Vasya from the street and not even the state. Stop perceiving the state as a dad or mom.

Moreover, you do not go to your mother for the period of flu treatment. Mom doesn't choose for you - to have back surgery or find a good osteopath.

3. If you have problems, difficulties, resentments, scandals in all state institutions - then you need to change yourself. You don't want to spend your whole life changing the system, do you? Well, work on yourself or keep silent quietly and evenly.

How to change yourself? We remove hereditary fears, grievances, blocks:

We are writing a psychological diet for the state. We write in Yandex - "psychological diet" and select the first link.

Say, is this nonsense?)) No question, continue to live as you lived. It means that you are better off this way than in another way.