How Are Henpecked Ones Obtained?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

As a rule, when a man and a woman start a relationship, they are unlikely to think about what guides them when they fulfill each other's desires. Most often, behind this is the desire to please the one who is nearby. Add to this the “chemistry of falling in love”, novelty, the opportunity to see joy in the eyes of a person you like, it is clear that you just want to do this, how you want to receive such a reaction in response to your actions.

But, as you know, the candy-bouquet period does not last forever. The feeling of novelty fades away. People get to know each other better, those personality traits that were not initially paid attention to, or they were carefully hidden, begin to appear. Relationships are often transformed at this time as well.

There are quite a few women who honestly like it when a man takes the role of a subordinate or henpecked. At the same time, often without realizing it themselves, they create all the conditions for this. Not all men become henpecked.

After all, no one will consider a henpecked man who responds and fulfills women's desires, while not losing his own dignity. Usually, such men are not very susceptible to manipulation by a woman, they are just quite sensitive to the requests of their woman (if the woman knows how to ask). And they fulfill desires based on their love for a woman and a desire to please her.

Most often those men become henpecked, to whom the woman in the process of communication was able to prove that she is stronger. And, what is important, the man believed in it for some reason, while he himself moved from a position on an equal footing to the position of an extension from below. And to love a woman from below is almost impossible. In such situations, women very often begin to use manipulations with a man (sex, children, divorce) in order to get what they want.

In such conditions, a man fulfills women's desires, but already out of fear, and not out of love. Men themselves in such relationships explain their position by the fact that they do not want to upset a woman, but the real reason is fear and guilt. But it is contraindicated for a man to feel guilt in a relationship with a woman, from the word at all. Because, this feeling, if it becomes very large, and a man can no longer cope with it, can kill him, and not at all in a figurative sense.

Tellingly, a woman makes a man see and solve her female problems in a female way, using female methods, and not male ones (she is strong and knows better how to do it). In such cases, a man who does not feel respect from a woman (a henpecked person is difficult to respect) begins to lose self-respect, which affects his condition extremely negatively. A woman treats such a man with almost disgust, often such men do not have authority in the family. The woman herself, despite the outward manifestations, is not happy in such a relationship, however, it is very difficult for her to admit that there is her contribution to this, almost never the women themselves do not admit it, but in vain.

After all, as soon as a woman stops proving and demonstrating her strength, a man has no choice but to become the strongest and make decisions on his own. Women's weakness is not a disadvantage, but a very strong means of motivating a man. By nature, we have a need to protect, protect and please our woman. It is useful for ladies to remember this and apply it in life. Especially if they have a desire to change the quality of the relationship.

Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.