2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Hello everyone 👋🏻
❗There are situations in life when we deceive, time, lie …
Moreover, we do it deliberately and even believe that it is for the good
✔ We lie alone because we are afraid of offending …
✔ Others - because we don't want to heap guilt on them …
✔ Third - because we are afraid not to live up to their expectations
‼ But in one and in the other case, playing the role of an "eco-friendly" good-natured person, we drive ourselves into a cage to our fears
We devalue our importance and exaggerate our resource, in this case 100%
❗And then as written: first, a feeling of guilt (why did you lie?), Then a feeling of anger at someone who was not "offended" and as a result, two serious emotions are added to the unspoken truth, which will not be worked out by anyone except you
And this begs the question:
🔺And why are you acting like that?
🔺Where was your "environmental friendliness" to yourself?
🔺What is primary and priority for you?
Lies - for the sake of salvation
Whom are we saving? From what or from whom?
🔻This is not salvation - this is a postponement of solving a situation, the payment for which is sometimes very expensive
♻ Do not be afraid to tell the truth to children, they are open to everything pure. Keep quiet, ask for an answer later, but don't be fooled
♻ Do not be afraid to tell the truth to your loved ones, they are adults and will understand you even if not immediately and not with the reaction you expect. It will already be their responsibility to accept or not accept your truth.
♻ Do not be afraid to tell the truth to yourself, this is the most difficult of all, of course, but if you learn to accept yourself as different (good / bad), then the desire to lie to yourself will disappear by itself. Even admitting something to yourself will become a challenge and excitement for you.
‼ Every time you have a desire to become an “eco-friendly deceiver” ask yourself in Odessa: “Do I need it?” 🤗😉
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