2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
When a person seemed to disappear from the radar forever, and you yourself crossed out all the dates in your general calendar. When you are no longer waiting for a call, and have become an independent, stable personality … Suddenly the phone beeps, the screen lights up - and everything is gone.
You want to jump up and run somewhere. Or open the window wide open to breathe in the air that has become cold by night. And remember, remember …
But there is no time to remember, since life again turned in the wrong direction. Thoughts rushed in a frantic rhythm, and it was so delightful to break all the prohibitions at once, to collapse the wall of alienation that had been so long and painstakingly erected with one movement of the phone keys.
You are not yet together, but you think about it with horror and goosebumps. But, at the same time, you cannot hide your annoyance from the mere idea that now everything will go as before, the deserved peace will return to its place, the cold window will close.
How long have you tried to deceive yourself! Or are you still cheating now, trying to compose a new thoughtless happiness on the go, which does not exist, and can no longer be? Or maybe make another leap, get out of the state of memorized correctness?
And therefore, you need to light the night lamp again, pick up the soul-saving book, lie down, count the lambs, watch the night butterflies flock to the light … No, it's unbearable, the truth of life is unbearable. But sculpting the old plot in a new way does not raise a hand.
Many women are so imbued with former relationships that they not only begin to poeticize them, but can revive an unviable "body" and stubbornly revive it. From here then follow neuroses, depression, and just a desperate howl at the moon.
Still, if your former beloved called / wrote to you, first sit down on a chair, exhale the air from your lungs, then pour yourself a glass of water, and slowly think about: cold foaming champagne, trips to the sea, your old dog, and still young parents …
Do not rush to understand that it is not worth it, it is not necessary to get into this relationship again. Trust me, it will come by itself. In the meantime, sit like this, do not think about anything, just count on the coming of your sheep for a dream.
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