2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Be in a creative crisis or dead end. Lose direction. Stop at a crossroads and not be able to take the next step because you don't know where to go. Feel yourself on the sidelines of life: it is she rushing by at a breakneck speed, and you are not able to grasp what is important and necessary. For you.
It is possible that you are successful right now: you make very good deals; you have a leading company; you are the best specialist in your field; you gush with ideas to promote the company; you make accounting entries with your eyes closed; your lyrics are read by millions … Everything looks great for the world, but not for you.
You don't feel the response in your heart. It's not a success for you at all. After all, when you win the rabbit competition, you are still a rabbit.
Sometimes, on the way to our goal, we choose what is useful, beneficial, relevant, and not what we want. And the path itself turns into thousands of ramifications, like intertwined spaghetti, and the goal itself ceases to be visible.
How to get out on your way? How to find out where she is? Or maybe leave it that way - after all, it's a pity to leave what is already there!
You know, what we have achieved will not go anywhere from us, all experience remains with us, and we can always return to it. But how tempting the idea is to listen to your heart and go wherever it calls! Even if, as it seems to us, we noticed the discrepancy between the desired and the actual late. As long as we are alive, it is never too late.
- Let you have the smallest but viable and most effective plan to achieve your dreams. Don't worry about long-term planning. Get new experience and knowledge now. For example, your dream includes the ability to drive a car. Sign up for courses or take driving lessons. You will feel how you are approaching the target with the speed that you see on the speedometer.
- Take small steps. They will allow you to learn about many interesting things. Learn to enjoy what gives you immediate feedback.
- Experiment. Your own experience will confirm or deny assumptions about the chosen path. Do not believe what you learn from other people, from television, the Internet. Only by experimenting, you can understand whether it is hard to do it, whether you like the profession, whether you can realize yourself in it. Try to get to know her through volunteering, conferences, workshops, internships, part-time work.
- You have to be ready to change course. Don't get stuck on one thing, even if you put a lot of energy into one idea. It's okay to adjust your life according to your knowledge and your changing interests.
- Avoid investing heavily in education, training, and preparation until you have explored your desire as much as possible. Test your idea. Learn more about her. For example, if you are interested in the profession of a doctor, work in a hospital - at least as a volunteer. Go to the morgue. Learn how the sight of blood or human suffering affects you. Check how friendly you are with chemistry.
- Keep your plans informal. When your friends and family ask what you are striving for, avoid giving too specific answers. Tell them that you are testing some of your ideas, gathering facts, trying to figure out what works best for you.
Ultimately, our success comes to us through building and changing our lives, not through the expectations of others. And the worst plan makes it possible to understand whether it is necessary to change something or leave everything as it is.
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