2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Now we constantly hear - manipulations, manipulators … "Fashionable" phenomenon, trend …
And earlier it sounded more and more - intrigue! Intriguer or schemer …
And it was not so widespread …
Maybe you didn't like it when they called it "intriguer"?)
And now, when the manipulator, then, it seems, and nothing - it has already become habitual.
Intrigue (fr. intrigue, from lat. intrico - "I confuse") - social interactions based on secret desires, weaknesses and dependencies of a person's character, leading to the desired result. The word is widely used in relation to political and everyday situations.
Psychological manipulation - a type of social influence or socio-psychological phenomenon, which is the desire to change the perception or behavior of other people using covert, deceptive and violent tactics in the interests of the manipulator.
If you delve deeply into these concepts, it becomes clear that "horseradish is not sweeter than radish" - both manipulation and intrigue are aimed at making another person act in the interests of a manipulator (or an intriguer).
And then there is - hypnosis, suggestions, various magic, etc. - and all this in order to gain power over another person.
The secret (or?) Message of these actions - love me! Submit to me! Stand in front of me like a leaf in front of the grass))
Thirst for love and power.
And you need to love the way the manipulator needs it. The way the Other loves - everything is "not so", little, "not tasty", pleasure is not that …
Only in all these manipulations of different kinds - there is no "salvation" either!
Yes, you can become a successful manipulator, but inside him there is a "worm of doubt" - it is difficult to get rid of the realization that he "loves himself with someone else's hands" in this way.
And again the poor man becomes empty and sick …
And if you look deeper into his motives, then there you can find such a familiar cry of a "little child":
- Mother! Give me back !!!
All manipulations and others like them serve one thing - to return the lost Paradise.
Paradise of merging, unity with mom. The memory of him is preserved in the depths of the human psyche.
Much of the work of psychologists is to reinforce a person's motivation to become happy and discover Paradise within themselves.
But how often can you meet a person who has passed this Path and found his Paradise?
Something important people do not see.
The path to your own Paradise can be simple, I'm sure everything is ingenious!)
Why, then, are we so painfully seeking and not finding this simple Path?
Is it possible that Man has chosen the path of development of technical progress, instead of the Path of self-development?
Now, when the technical process "rested" on the Human being, it is simply trying to "climb" under the skin of the Human! - Maybe it's time to look at the World with the eyes of a Curious (free?) Child and see what for some reason we still cannot see, although we are trying sooo much?
Maybe that's why we are staying at home this year?
What would then go out into the World and look at it with a new, "clean" look?
In one thing, you can be sure for sure - the situation in the world has "turned" Man to Man!
It is so nice when, at a meeting in a real hall of the university, a famous speaker addresses the hall with words (although joking, it seems, but very sincerely and emotionally:
- Hello, living people!)
And the audience understands this greeting - buzzes approvingly, responds from their seats!
Watch from 30.51 to 31.02.
(If you wish, you can see everything - it's also interesting))
Maybe this virus really came to the World so as not to separate people, as it seems at first, but, on the contrary, to push them towards each other?
Precisely, when people's faces are hidden by the obligatory masks, is it so tempting to kiss?)
And not keep the distance, but reduce it to a hug?
What do you think, dear Reader?
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