2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Of course, a useful thing will never be called superfluous
And even supporters of the now popular body-positive movement do not go there from a good life. Not everyone manages to get slimmer with the help of proper nutrition. Can't they jump out of the window, really?
In fact, in addition to eating disorders and physical inactivity, a huge number of factors can contribute to the appearance of extra pounds.
Here are just some of the reasons why weight does not go away:
- Genetic predisposition - a person has both full or one parent.
- From the standpoint of the systemic constellation, genetics, manifesting in the form of a tendency to be overweight, is the only way to carry something heavy from the fate of a representative of the genus.
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Metabolic disorders as a result of illness or hormonal treatment.
- Psychological trauma, forcing a person to hide in a "cocoon", thereby expanding their boundaries.
- Secondary benefit for not building or developing close relationships with a specific partner or with members of the opposite sex in general.
- Sometimes, with the help of a large body, a person tries to become more noticeable for significant people or his environment, to gain "weight", "significance", "status"
- To hide behind the fear of death, guided by the principle, "while the fat dries, thin …".
Of course, there are men who like fat women. Being like this (a real parody of me - I myself am surprised how similar it is:)
I often feel the signs of attention of many familiar and completely unfamiliar men to me. Do not believe it - your right:)
Quite recently, a man living next door approached me in a grocery store and invited me out of town for the May holidays. The man was about five years older than me and looked quite respectable. Of course, I thanked him for the invitations and replied that I was married. The man did not pass up and replied that he had not seen me with my husband for a long time, and that recently we went to the store separately.
"Wow! He's also watching me! " - noted my self-esteem and instantly flew up!
And I laughed it off and hurried to the exit.
By the way, at the age of 18, when with great efforts of will, with the help of diets and morning jogging, I could hardly keep within the normal range, the attention was much less, because I was not confident in myself, rarely smiled, hid my eyes until I worked their problems. At twenty-five years old, being far from thin, she met her future husband.
By the way, when I built 22 kilograms with us and the difficulties began:
- jealousy
- mistrust
- desire to devalue
One of the reasons the weight goes off slowly is because of the comfort zone. I'm calm, it's safe for me to be like this
If you consider the stories of fat actresses and TV presenters, they are all usually married.
Even in the American TV show "300+", almost all three-hundred-kilogram "babes" are either married or have boyfriends!
What does this mean?
The fact that being overweight does not in any way affect the presence of a personal life!
And what does it affect?
Much:
- To your health, of course. More "sores" stick to overweight people
- On self-esteem - if a person is not confident in himself, it is more difficult for him to attract the attention of the opposite sex, because he broadcasts his lack of confidence to the world, as it happened during periods with me
- We have already decided that kilograms do not affect the amount of personal life, but very much even the quality. If a person sees his imperfection, he, a priori, leads more constrainedly during sex, turns off the light, covers himself with a blanket, instead of going to his spouse, runs to the refrigerator
How can you become slimmer if you are sure that you are eating little and there are no results?
Start by finding the reason for your extra pounds!
Answer your questions:
- Do you have any serious illnesses?
- What eating behavior was in your parental family?
- Who was fat in your family and in your family? Dig as deeply as possible, at least to great-grandmothers
- What was difficult in the fate of this complete ancestor?
- Do you have the benefit of being complete? How else can you solve the problem that this benefit solves with the help of additional cargo?
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