2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I decided to write in support of my colleague Oksana Tankova.
Yesterday Oksana wrote an article on a very interesting topic that caused controversy
This topic touched me so much, because I myself have been living for more than five years with a diagnosis of "oncology" and now I am in remission.
It so happened that "thanks" to the executive director of the company, where at that moment I was in charge of the personnel training and development department, the news of my diagnosis became the property of all colleagues. At first it upset me, and then I realized that "everything that is done is for the best." In addition, just a few days later, Zhanna Friske announced that she was sick with cancer throughout the country.
And I began to look for examples of recovery and long life, people diagnosed with oncology. After a while, my first deck of Metaphorical Associative Cards, "Dembel Album of the Healing Cancer", appeared.
My experience now helps many people to cope not only with this disease, but also with other life trials. Clients often say:
"My dysplasia / myoma / stomach ulcer no longer seems to be scary to me."
Recently, I wrote about a good friend of mine, who for several years headed a patient organization for mutual aid for people with cancer.
We adopted the experience of the EVA, a well-known association for helping women with HIV in our city. Representatives of this organization call themselves "peer consultants". When a person is in trouble, which you cannot tell everyone about, lawyers and psychologists who know firsthand what HIV is, will come to the rescue.
No wonder the great American psychologist Rollo May writes in his article "The Wounded Healer":
Psychologists are people too! And we differ from non-psychologists in that
I am now looking for a personal therapy (we psychologists are obliged to undergo it every year) a colleague who has had experience in losing excess weight by more than 25 kg and has kept the weight normal for more than 5 years.
Because, as a result of hormonal treatment, I gained weight, which goes away very slowly, much slower than before when I was healthy.
Someone will prefer in this case a genetic thin-boned skinny woman with ideal forms, to whom the concept of "excess weight" is known only in theory
As the poet wrote:
And truthful specialists are much closer to me than those who try to varnish reality with false statements about how rich, healthy, beautiful and successful they are, in absolutely everything.
I just want to ask:
"Oh, is it?"
- Princesses “farts with violets” because they have a powerful air freshener in the restroom, which artificially recreates the scent of violets. And really happy people are not evil, they simply cannot be so by definition, and if they can, then the question arises: are they really happy?
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