2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Today I want to share with you why I am writing and what difficulties and experiences I face in doing so.
Why am I writing?
I write in order to share what I think is important. And what I think might be useful to other people. And I am writing to be seen. I write so that people who read me notice whether what I write or does not respond to them.
If my texts are read by my potential clients, then it is important for me that if they read, they could check how close and similar our values and understanding of the world are. As far as I can be the person to whom they want to turn for psychological help.
I often find it difficult to start writing. Why?
When I am going to write, I come across the fact that it seems to me that all the topics that I want to write about, what I want to share, about this have already been written by others much more interesting, much deeper, much more complete and it seems like why else write about it ?
On the other hand, now I am thinking that even if many have already written about this topic, then maybe the way I write about it will turn out to be written in a very understandable language to someone. And through my text with someone we can feel some kind of closeness.
When I’m about to press the “Publish” button, I feel anxious about how interesting, useful, important it will be to other people.
I also feel afraid to hear some kind of condemnation or devaluation.
Fear that someone will devalue my text. Although with this I know what I will do. I have already learned to defend what I write and myself in such situations. At the very least, I can indicate to a person that if he is not interested in this, then he always has a choice not to read and pass by.
It was like that when I shared situations from the past: from childhood, from youth.
It was difficult for me to share the situation from my childhood, I was afraid that someone would suddenly judge me. And at the same time, I wanted to share this story so that it could find a response from someone or it could be useful to someone.
And it was easy for me to publish a story that was associated with the fact that I was in a funny situation. In this case, it was easy and joyful for me to share.
It’s hard for me to find those posts in which I’m just starting to research some topic. And in which I am just diving into this issue and there is still no such direct depth of understanding of this topic. And then I am anxious and scared that I can get such an arrogant response: “What are you writing about here? Some kind of nonsense. That person has already deeply researched it, and here you write something superficially."
What would I like from my readers, from you?
I would like to receive support that what I am writing is familiar to you. That what I write resonates with you. That what I am sharing is important, interesting or useful to you. That you just see me.
And despite all my worries and fears, I want to write and share with you what I think is important.
I would be very grateful for your support and your responses!
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