2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I believe it is important to seek resources and not pay attention to problems. First of all, as I think, this statement can be attributed to all sorts of fears, self-doubt and the like.
For example, I'm afraid of something. What's the point in saying I'm scared? What's the point of focusing on it all the time? Yes, it is important to share this, because by sharing a feeling with another, it is lived and diminished. It is to share with others, and not to experience it with yourself alone. But it is important to find support, strength, confidence, a different, more positive view, to remember, if something happened, about your positive experience of dealing with this kind of situations.
I will share my example, my experience. They are going to build a multi-storey house in my yard under the renovation program (well, it doesn't matter, although why they are going, the main thing is that they started building). For me it was like this: horror, horror, there will be dirt and dust during construction, noise in the morning and I will not be able to get enough sleep, when I need to sleep longer, the view from the window will change a lot, there will be no distant prospects, and so on, then the neighbors will be there. I look out the windows, and I them. Well, so on and so forth:) Now, as you can see, I am already smiling at this all. Like, what nonsense goes into my head:)
Yes, how did I get over it? Why am I already smiling?:) I nevertheless shared my experiences with others, I felt better. Then I thought, why not include curiosity here at all: How will they build? What vehicles will arrive at the construction site? What will be built? How do I deal with what is bothering me? What if everything will be completely different, better than I imagined? It may well be so! For this I remembered my childhood, when such situations did not bother me, when everything was interesting! I remembered that it is possible and positive attitude! Suddenly it will be very beautiful then! Suddenly it will be built on the sidelines altogether! In general, I will get used to it, I will not notice all this! In general, you can do something else, and not concentrate on the hindrances to life! Or maybe they are not hindrances at all, but new opportunities, a point for growth!
You can do the same with other situations!
Please share your thoughts on the situations in which this approach will work best yet!
Yes, and in what situations is it better not to do this or not to do so right away?
And if we support each other with inspiring examples, then it will be great!
Thank you for your attention!
I look forward to your feedback!
See you in the comments!:)
Author: Mashin Vladislav Leonidovich
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