2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Handicap is a sports competition in which weaker opponents are given a handicap (a certain advantage in conditions) in order to equalize their chances of success. The size of the handicap is determined in advance and depends on the difference in the degree of preparedness of the competitors
The world expects beauty from a woman. It is difficult to dispute the social attitude that the main occupation of a woman is like. This is how many people live, regardless of nationality and class. Let's go further. By what the woman likes, she gets food and a roof over her head; by the same token she gains a position in society. Somehow it is imperceptible that something especially has changed in this area over the past 2000 years. In addition to the so-called equality, literature about women, for women and, in general, all this feminist mysticism.
Every ugly girl instinctively feels that she belongs to the offended, bypassed by fate, and in order to achieve anything in life, she must be smarter, stronger and more merciless than she would like. Agness de Mille, a famous dancer and choreographer, says she is sure that it is her innate ugliness, faintness that is the basis of her downright wild ambition. If she succumbed to her ugliness, her life would become a dull "misfire", a failure, so she could not give in. Lack of beauty is an incentive that never misfires. What is more surprising is that women who fully and actively develop all their abilities become much more charming in adulthood; they acquire an individual, self-created charm. Maybe they are given the basis by the rage of the start; it leads to the fact that they go forward with their heads raised, which they decided not to be ashamed of at any cost; rebellion against the judgment of blind nature sharpens their abilities and accelerates life's progress.
But the question is: how to find the strength in yourself for that very handicap? Not to accept, saying that this is my destiny, but to use your resource for development and self-improvement?
The advice is banal: any self-development begins with self-discipline, and self-discipline begins with the daily routine. The best way to raise your emotional tone is a contrast shower. The second, simple to the point of genius, way to cheer yourself up is to drink a glass of orange juice every day on an empty stomach. Gymnastics, in addition to the fact that in itself helps to strengthen the will, makes the body elastic and beautiful, it also improves mood, as it affects the metabolism and improves the nutrition of all body tissues, including the brain. And, of course, communication with positive people, not whiners. When those in the immediate environment are not observed - read books, but not sentimental novels in the style of "thirty minutes to the last line", but really setting you up for an optimistic mood. Reading books generally has a beneficial effect on appearance: the thought appears in the eyes that in itself is an extremely attractive thing. In combination with unobtrusive self-irony and joyful perception of the world, it makes a unique bouquet of charm and lightness.
Drawing up a minimum life plan is also an important point. Self-development is not a matter of one day, so it should be accompanied by at least some kind of life goal, and certain personal principles should accompany it.
