2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
HOW TO PAY THE ATTENTION OF A MAN TO YOURSELF?
The motive is patronage of "one's own".
Yours and continue
By her actions, the girl created a situation in which she had already entered the man's personal space, singled out him as “her own”, created a situation in which she herself was “hers” for him, made the genetically inherent male program of responsibility for the fate of a woman work.
For example, a lady accidentally (or intentionally) found herself sitting next to him on the same seat on the bus, on the same sofa at a party, in the same boat on a boat trip, in the same hotel room on a business trip, etc. etc. In this case, she is, as it were, initially, immediately, perceived by the man as "his own", in relation to her, a purely natural, biological mechanism of the male's patronage over an interesting female of reproductive age who is next to him is triggered.
A man instantly distinguishes a girl from all the others, she turns out to be even much more attractive to him than the more beautiful of the other ladies present. He gets to know her, seeks to continue communication, perceives her not just as a "sexual object", just as "his", begins to patronize, communicate.
As a result, in a short time, the very same mutual sympathy is formed, which at first in the heat of the moment can be perceived by people as "love at first sight", and in the future can easily turn into it.
If you say that you have found yourself in the above situations (or similar) many times and it still did not end with acquaintance and relationships, I will emphasize again:
The girl did not just "find herself in a situation" or "created a situation", but with her actions.
That is, she not only sat next to the table at the birthday party, but actively touched the man with her hips and shoulders, with her hands, applied salads to him, wiped the sauce that had got on his jacket with a napkin, straightened his tie that had slipped to one side, and invited him to dance.
The probability that a casual acquaintance will turn into a serious relationship is the higher, the more often the girl touches the man with her hands, and the more attentively she listens to him.
In the first case, she thereby easily enters his personal space, forms a stereotype of “her own” in a man.
In the second, the girl, as it were, transfers the right of leadership to the man, and almost any man melts from the feeling of her leading role, of her importance. Even the most experienced and adult.
This is how male psychology works!
Best regards, family psychologist Andrey Zberovsky
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