2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
This story has a pre story. Names have been changed. Consultation permission obtained.
First, Svetlana Sergeevna, who is 58 years old, turned to me, has two grown daughters who are not married and have no intention of building a family. The eldest, 32, is beautiful and clever. The youngest, 28, is also beautiful and clever. The daughters live separately from mom and dad. They bought themselves a place to live and left their parents. The older one has a three-room apartment in a new microdistrict, and the youngest has bought only a kopeck piece so far.
Svetlana Sergeevna has long been sounding the alarm that "girls completely ignore the opposite sex."
"If your daughters turn to me on their own, I will work with them. But my work with a client is a client's personal business, I have no right to inform you about its results," I said.
Time passed and Irina, the eldest daughter of Svetlana Sergeevna, knocked on my Skype.
"I turned to you at the insistence of my mother. She completely exhausted us. She proves that my sister and I are not normal. We are not looking for a mate. I don’t want to look for anyone. I looked at this" family happiness ", but now I am just resting!.that there is no nerve-maker nearby. Mom just raves about our marriage. Foaming at the mouth, proving that marriage is happiness. But I don't think so, "Irina said to me.
“What kind of family relationship did the parents have?” I asked.
Terrible! Dad is very beautiful and earns great money. He is cheerful and loves company. And mom is constantly afraid of losing him. She is jealous of everyone. She has already avoided going to beauty salons, everything is trying to charm dad. And it makes him laugh. And now he has a young mistress and Mom is aware of this, but she endures everything. But I don’t want and will not. And my sister thinks the same way. You are talking about getting married. Why? To suffer like my mother? To run around fortune-tellers and psychics? And for what? What is it What will a man give me? Suffering? Self-doubt? I don’t need it! I want to live in peace. I don’t want to worry and suffer. I’m not interested in this, I’ve seen it already.”- answered the client.
“I understood you,” I said.
"Do you understand? And what do you tell me?" - Irina said, puzzled.
"I will say that this is your life and you have the right to independently dispose of it." - I replied.
Irina began to calm down and the session came to an end.
After some time, Svetlana Sergeevna called.
“Was there Irina?” She asked.
“Yes,” I replied.
"And how? Will she finally marry?" - Svetlana Sergeevna continued to be interested.
"It only depends on her desire," I said, but I so wanted to continue- "From the desire that you destroyed by your relationship with her father."
Family happiness should be happiness-happiness for all family members, and then everything in this family will be fine.
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