2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
She always wanted to be the best. Get the best grades, be an exemplary student, do the job perfectly. Sometimes She regretted that she was born a girl, because this world belonged to men, and She so wanted to conquer it!..
But one day She did not succeed! I failed to prove to myself and others that She is the best. After a while it was repeated. And then it was necessary to save this world, the inner ideal world, which took up so much space …
- Can you imagine what will happen if I disappear ?! - Shouted in hysterics Her ideal part. - There will also be emptiness!.. But there is a way out - just pretend that you are the best anyway. What's the difference what's inside? The image is important! Don't you know this ?!
- But this is an option, "- She was delighted," and this means that all is not lost! I will keep seemingly the best for others!
Years passed, She continued to pretend, and everything would be fine if one day there was no feeling of discomfort, which was deeply rooted and constantly reminded of itself. Then there was a feeling of some kind of emptiness and cold aching pain. And the most difficult thing was that it was impossible to explain this bouquet of new sensations. Well, just no leads! Everything seems to be hanging in a space that is no longer filled with anything …
“Well, hello, Best,” Depression said with mock irony. - Let's keep quiet together about what happened?
She did not answer and realized that she was plunging into darkness … Life lost its former colors.
- I am not the center of the Universe, I am not the best, and is no longer noticeable to others … So I am not!..
_ _ _
The little girl cried, expressing indignation and anger. (Then She was still able to resist the toxic invasion of her space). Mom dressed her in a bright dress and spoke loudly:
- Now we will go to the store and buy you a doll much better than the neighbor's girl. You will be better than other children! I will crawl out of my skin, shatter to smithereens, but I will prove to all of them that you are the Best for Me! …
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