Feminine Balance Placement. Algorithm

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Many colleagues, and clients too, know that there are several female archetypes or incarnations.

They are called differently. I always try to speak in a language understandable to any client, therefore, in my performance, this is the most common option:

1. Mother woman
2. Woman daughter
3. Female friend
4. Woman lover

All of these parts are important for a woman to feel whole and to attract men for a happy marriage, not just one thing.

For example:

• Woman lover attracts men for sex
• A female friend as a good companion
• Mother woman as an incubator for the birth of children
• A woman-daughter, like a Barbie doll, so that at her expense a man can show his importance

Do you want to define who is more in you?

I will share with you a constellation exercise that I recently came up with during an online consultation

1 part of work

1. Which of these parts do you think prevails?
2. And which part is the least?
3. Imagine all four parts are 100%
4. Determine how much% is each of your parts?
5. Draw a circle and determine the approximate balance of your roles, as in the picture:

2 part of the work

1. Take 5 identical blank A4 sheets
2. Write on one of the sheets x "I am now" and draw an arrow in any direction
3. On all other sheets, write (on each separately): "Woman-mother", "Woman-daughter", "Woman-friend", "Woman-lover"
4. Put the "I now" sheet in the middle of the room, with the inscription up
5. Turn the rest of the sheets over with the inscriptions down and mix and spread, so that you do not know where it lies, which of the sheets

Part 3 of the job

1. Turn off your TV, phone and close social networks
2. Stand aside and look at all the sheets, carefully, tune in to work
3. Stand with your eyes closed, relax and breathe deeply: inhale through your nose, exhale through your mouth
4. When you're ready, step with your bare feet on the leaf closest to you.
5. Wait and feel: what is happening to your body, what emotions are you experiencing here?
6. Evaluate your feelings on this sheet in percentages from 0 to 100, realizing that you still need to evaluate the sensations on other sheets, because everything should turn out to be 100%
7. Without opening the values, go to another sheet and do the same
8. And so with all the sheets
9. Open only at the end

4 part of work

1. When you turn the sheets over with the inscriptions up, look where the arrow of the sheet "I am now" points to?
2. How does this match your feelings?
3. How does your real experience compare with the circle you drew in the beginning?

5 part of the work

Answer yourself honestly to the questions:

1. What is your perception of yourself based on?
2. Are you satisfied with everything?
3. Has it always been this way?
4. If not, how was it before?
5. As a result of what circumstances did the change take place?
6. How can you influence the harmonization of the balance of all parts?
7. What will be your first step towards integrity?