I DON'T WANT TO BE A MAN IN A SKIRT ANYMORE - ABOUT THE BALANCE OF WOMEN'S AND MEN'S ENERGIES

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Many women have recently come with the following request - tired of being a man in a skirt, tired of plowing like a horse. I want to be a woman, to feel like a woman. Help me get back in touch with my feminine part, restore feminine energy, otherwise I have too much masculine.

The fact is that what women consider to be masculine energy, as a rule, is not. In most cases, this is not an overabundance of male energy, but the most ordinary tension. Feeling defenseless in the male world (and our world today is still male), being in a state of need and fear for herself, for her future and the future of her children, a woman begins to “earn”, doing an unloved business, fight, compete, survive. Being soft and fluid by nature, she has to build up "armor" - an impenetrable shell that helps her survive in the world of social wars and competition. But how does she feel in this shell? Try to drag 10-20 kg with you constantly, from morning to evening, every day? Not every man can do such a feat, but here is a fragile woman…. In addition, putting on armor, a woman protects herself not only from enemies and attackers, she also blocks the flow of creativity and love in her life. Simply because energy does not flow into the system through the protective shell. Love and creativity are energy flows, they cannot break through the protective armor that a woman has created for herself and bears on herself throughout life. The first step for such a woman, as I see it, is, of course, to relax, relax the body, remove tension. The time required may vary depending on the degree of stress. Sometimes a woman is so tense that she cannot relax for a long time. Of course, desire and perseverance are very important here. The process will definitely go, just in each case in different ways, sometimes almost immediately, in other cases - after a long time. Imagine that a woman began to tense up in childhood, at first when her parents told her that you need to be a good girl, not to run, not to scream, not to be angry, not to be angry … … Further in school - it was necessary to study well, deserving love and approval, to be comfortable for everyone - mom, dad, relatives, teachers … strong muscle tension. Of course, in order to relax such a woman, a long process will be needed - massages, a bath and various bodily practices aimed at relaxation, to help her. As a result, everyone can relax, simply because it is our feminine nature - to be relaxed.

And now, having gone through such a process, a woman finally begins to relax, gradually releases tension and control, becomes fluid and smooth like water, and enters completely into a “feminine” state. It would seem: this is happiness. But here the majority of women are waiting for a new "surprise". Having learned from childhood to strain, to live in a hard shell that served as her protection, a woman did not develop her inner core! The external tension disappears, the hard shell subsides - and an absolutely vulnerable woman, without a developed internal structure, begins to simply “spread”, like a body without bones, consisting only of muscles. While the muscles were tense, they somehow kept their shape, and now they relaxed - but there is no skeleton inside (I'm talking about the energy structure, of course). And the woman begins to turn into a formless something, unable to plan a day, build plans, or come to a meeting on time. She begins to hover in the clouds, ceases to function normally in everyday life, begins to confuse and forget everything. That is why many women are afraid of female practices, because this is a fairly common effect from them. The woman has been relaxed, and she does not know what to do with herself, so relaxed. And here it is very important not to miss this moment, to start building an internal structure, to develop a "skeleton", to build your inner core. Simply because, without inner strength, a woman turns into a cloth for wiping her feet and dust. And all and sundry, unfortunately, are beginning to use it. She cannot stand up for herself in such a state.

A harmonious woman is a woman in her power. With a very well-built hard core inside, while outwardly very soft, feminine and relaxed. But this external relaxation and defenselessness is quite illusory. Imagine a cat basking in the sun. She's all so soft and fluffy, fluid and relaxed … but try to pull her tail! Instant mobilization, full concentration, and you will see that all her external defenselessness is just an illusion, and inside she just has a perfectly built internal core, and she will not allow anyone to offend herself. So is a woman correctly energetically aligned - outwardly soft and relaxed, but completely in her strength. She is relaxed and trusting. She is able, in her softness and relaxation, to withstand various difficulties and life winds. Like a willow, it bends, but it is almost impossible to break it in this state. Has anyone tried breaking a flexible willow twig?

Therefore, masculine energy is as important for any woman as feminine. This is the same rigid rod inside, the skeleton, on which the muscles are attached. Male energy helps us set goals, move towards them, get what we want, this is the energy of action, a clear awareness of our desires and intentions, a clear vision of our path. This is the ability to stand up for yourself, to clearly define your boundaries.

If a woman manages to correctly align herself energetically, remaining soft, feminine, relaxed and accepting, to develop or maintain her inner core, she becomes a magnet for attracting various benefits to life. After all, the normal initial state of each of us is abundance, prosperity, joy, happiness, pleasure. A contented woman who receives PLEASURE from life is PLEASED. Life takes care of her, her wishes come true, dreams materialize, her life is like a daily holiday. Be happy and contented, take care of yourself, your condition, wonderful women. The results will not be long in coming.