2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Living in the waiting room
She can wear smart clothes for a special occasion that never comes. The best piece will be eaten at the very end. He says that after the New Year he will “take care of himself” … This is how life goes on: maybe …, someday later … or after …
She lives as if in a waiting room. From the window he sees a mirage, and does nothing to get closer to it. Moves along its familiar route from and to. It excludes from communication and the field of visibility all familiar “stimuli” that remind by their existence that change is possible. Sacrificially limits himself, trains the will, also for later, it will come in handy. It is scary to live differently, it is much safer for her to postpone life itself.
A way out is possible and she will find a way if:
- will try to admit his responsibility for what is happening, - will not start looking for a way out alone, but will seek psychological help, - will be able to recognize their feelings,
- separate his own and desires from extraneous prescriptions, - will lower the bar of requirements for yourself, - will part with mirages.
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