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One day he will come. It will be completely unexpected, and probably at this moment you will already stop waiting. You will be happy. It's just that by that time you will have learned to be happy alone.
Surely he will seem very strange to you, because he will not want to hurt you, but will protect your feelings, because your opinion, your desires and what gift you want to receive for your birthday will become important to him. And also, what will surprise and confuse you that he does not want to disappear from your life at all. You already, according to a developed habit, will hide and wait for it to begin and it will disappear, from the beginning for a day, then a week, then a month or two. But this will not happen, he will not want to disappear from you. Yes, he will have things to do, work, friends, but he will come back to you, because by that time you will "grow up" yourself and have already drawn the right conclusions from the past. After all, you will always want to return to a happy girl.
Then, surprisingly, you will find a daily smile on your face in the mirror, which will also seem strange to you. Then you will see how he tries, doing something to make you smile: he will meet you from work, buy food, remember your birthday and a present.
It will also seem strange that he answers your every call, and if he cannot, he calls back, he answers every message you send and will call back if he decides that he does not understand what you wanted to say.
It will also be unexpected that you start planning a weekend, vacation together … well, and then something that happened by itself to your family and children.
He will talk to you, because he will already understand that besides sex, people also talk in relationships.
And at some point you will catch yourself thinking that you are not analyzing him at all, as you are used to, you are not looking for a trick in him, you are not expecting that he will do something sick to you and leave you alone in this pain.
In general, he will be very strange for you, so strange that he will recoil from him, and at that moment he will always hold you by the hand even stronger, so that God forbid you do not run away and get someone else. Because by that time you will know very well how to run away from a relationship.
You will know how to lie alone in the bathroom under the shower or on the bedroom floor and cry, trying to cope with the pain. You will know how to recover from a breakup. You will know how to defend your boundaries and not let yourself be used. You will know how not to pick up the pipes, how to release the thorns in time so that they do not offend.
But the paradox is that all this knowledge will be useless, because with it you will not need it at all, you simply will not need it.
You will forever forget how it is, when it does not add up, what are unfulfilled promises, what are words to the wind. And most importantly, you do not have to add anything by force and force events to happen, because you will add together and the events will be common for two.
One day everything will seem strange to you, but it will be the best that can be, and what you could expect …
24.06.2016. 0:52
Author: Darzhina Irina Mikhailovna
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