2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
This article is a hard-won desire to communicate with clients who, even before meeting at the consultation, have very well figured out for themselves some aspects of the result expected from a meeting with a psychologist.
Each potential client has in his head his own "picture" of the result of communication with a psychologist. Often this "picture" is very vague and not specific. To deal with here sorting out all the possible reasons for contacting a psychologist and the expected results is an overwhelming task.
It is easier to determine in which cases it is not necessary to consult a psychologist. In no way am I trying to influence your decision, but clarifying certain important points for myself before the first meeting with a psychologist will help to specifically save your financial and time resources.
So:
1. If you decide to seek help from a psychologist, then you are an absolutely normal person and everything is in perfect order with your head, no matter what and whoever tells you. Otherwise, go to a psychiatrist.
2. Psychological assistance is paid! You can get help for free in emergency crisis situations (for example, with domestic violence, with suicidal thoughts, catastrophes and natural disasters, with rape and other urgent psychological problems), or undergo an initial interview, or "take part" in a well-built advertising campaign specific specialist.
Freebie (cheese) only in a mousetrap!
3. If you choose a psychologist "cheaper", then first determine for yourself how much "free" medical care cost you, taking into account the cost of drugs, examinations and referrals for various procedures. As a rule, the cheaper a specialist evaluates his services, the more problems he has with the clientele. Think why?
4. You should not contact a psychologist, and he will not help you if:
- You still believe in fairy tales and expect miracles.
- You are waiting for ready-made "wonderful" advice from an intelligent, experienced, knowledgeable specialist.
- If you are sure that someone else or everyone can be happy and worthy of this happiness, just not you.
- If you are not ready to take responsibility for your happiness and are not ready to work for it for yourself, you want a psychologist to work for your happiness (he was paid for THIS).
If you are aware of all of the above and agree with everything, then you are welcome. We TOGETHER will find in you the necessary forces and resources and determine the direction of movement to obtain the desired result!
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