2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
What do men want from women? Women regularly ask a family psychologist: What do men want from a woman, from a wife? It is not difficult to describe a man's request. Creating a relationship with a girl, being married, most often, men want to get the following set, which I call: "7 components of male happiness in the family":
What do men want from women?
1. Comfortable communication. When a girl doesn't get hysterical or scandalous; not sore; does not nag her husband with daily reproaches and clarifications of relationships; does not play in silence, but does not pop incessantly. Men love not just dialogue, but such when the request for communication comes from both sides. And if a man is tired after work and wants to keep quiet a little, you need to give him this opportunity without resentment and revenge.
2. Respect, recognition, gratitude. A man wants to know that he is the authority in his relationship. He is appreciated and thanked for what he does for his family, for his woman and his children. A man also wants his woman to appreciate him both as a specialist in his profession, and as a man - for his strength, self-confidence, punchy and sexual abilities, etc. Of course, insults will be unpleasant for a man, and even more so, assault from the lady of his heart. As well as comparison with other men is not in his favor.
3. Sexual appearance and behavior. A man does not like to impose, he wants his sexual activity in relation to a woman to always be sincerely supported by her. So that the girl is not just ready for intimate variety, but also that she wants this herself, so that she is not ashamed of her own requests, be emotional and liberated. Also, a man wishes that no matter how many years a couple exists, how many children there are, the girl tried to look good, did not have excess weight. She looked after herself so that his male pride was filled with joy for the correctness of his choice of a partner.
4. Loyalty. A man does not want to waste time on jealousy, on heavy thoughts about who, where and how his wife spend time. Who gives her gifts and chocolates, who writes to her in instant messengers late in the evening. A man does not like when his girlfriend not only flirts with someone, but also continues to communicate with someone who clearly expresses his benevolence to her.
5. Motivation and support of a man in his affairs and goals. A man always wants to leave his mark on history, to achieve success and recognition, to feel radiant. But all this happens only in competition, and competition hurts the psyche painfully, creates stress. Therefore, for a man, not only emotional support for his undertakings is important, but also the personal participation of a woman - from advice to physical involvement in his business, at least being nearby. The gold standard is "Vasilisa the Wise-Beautiful" from Russian folk tales, capable not only of morally supporting an upset husband, but also of providing him with real help.
6. Help in communication with children. Men love their children, but because of their perpetual employment, they communicate with them quite a bit. That is why sometimes they move away from children against their will: they put excessive pressure, sincerely wanting to teach something useful, keep a cute style of communication with adolescents, etc. Therefore, it is right for a wife not only to be a translator from a child's language into a man's language and vice versa, but also to be able to properly set up children to accept not always pedagogically thought out father's behavior. When a man comes home, it is the mother who must tell the children: “Hurray, our beloved daddy is back! Let's kiss him! So that the children, seeing the relationship with their mother's man, do the same. And then the man will be happy!
7. Ability to communicate with friends and relatives of a man. A woman who seeks to make a man only her own, wants to embroil him with his familiar environment, puts a man in front of a difficult choice when he can feel like a traitor in relation to those people who have been with him for many years, raised him and provided support. This always creates conflict. Therefore, the ability to accept a man's social circle, to maneuver between these people and a husband, to be a diplomat, to add softly, and not harshly take away is a great talent of a girl, a wife. If a girl turns out to be close to a man, he himself will gradually get out of the influence of relatives and give up bad friends. You just have to wait and do it with a smile.
If a girl can give a man this behavioral complex, as a rule, the man is happy! He values his relationship, does not change, strives to create the same comfortable relationship for his soul mate. I very much wish the girls female wisdom and reciprocal male love, warmth and responsibility.
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