Why Do Women Think Men Only Want Sex?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

From some women you can often hear a reproach towards men that they only need sex from them. At the same time, according to them, men are not at all interested in developing relationships. A kind of position of an offended and angry girl. Of course, ladies expressing such thoughts are cunning and do not want to pay attention to the real state of affairs.

If you stick to their point of view, then men not only do not want a relationship, but also do not create families. It is absurd to assume that men marry only because of legalized and free sex, a trip to a prostitute, in this case, could solve the problem of satisfying certain desires much easier. Relationships are really not only sex (although this is important), it is much more complicated, it is a process of interaction. After all, not all men go on a date with the sole purpose of getting a new woman into their bed (although there are some). They, like women, need a relationship with all the ensuing consequences.

One of the reasons for this position of women, oddly enough, is precisely the sexuality of the woman herself. Or rather, the transfer of their own, hidden desires to men. To admit, to myself that a woman likes to have sex and she really wants it, to put it mildly, is scary. Because there is social morality with its attitude, which women receive in childhood, this is the postulate that only corrupt women and of course men (dirty animals) can want sex, but real women are not like that, everything is different with them. The biggest lie about sex, in my opinion.

Relationships are created, not received. When a woman declares that a man should first of all want a relationship with her, and not sex, then a question arises. Why exactly with her, what is in the woman herself, in order to suppose and wish that an adult, a man in every sense, would want a relationship with her, and not just sex.

Women most often talk about their appearance in response to such questions. About the fact that she built her own body, about the same applies to other areas of life, but interesting only to the woman herself. Life changes, time passes, and men change too. Those skills and qualities that in the past were primarily valued in a woman (cooking borscht, ironing shirts, I exaggerate) are no longer a priority. Likewise, with masculine qualities, the "heroic" image of an engineer with a salary of 180 rubles does not cause delight these days.

Relationships involve the development of various ways of communication in a couple, including sex. However, it should be remembered that an opinion that was relevant in the past and acquired the property of a template may turn out to be completely useless, and sometimes even dangerous in the reality of the present. There is a lot of talk about how important it is to understand the person who is nearby, but how few actions people take in this direction. Without acknowledging your own limiting beliefs, it is hardly worth hoping for a favorable development of the situation in the relationship between a man and a woman.

Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.