2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
She has been a good girl for 37 years. Someone who does not upset her parents with unwanted behavior, always returns home on time and "loses" her virginity only after marriage. At every convenient and not so much opportunity, in the circle of the most and not quite close friends, she neatly hinted at how tired she was of this image and how much she wants to send him far beyond the horizon and live the life that she really likes
She graduated from high school almost with honors, making it "almost" a kind of rebellion against the parental system, which she was terribly proud of. She successfully danced in a fashionable show ballet and from time to time participated in productions not because she dreamed of conquering the stage, loved the spotlights and express her thoughts and feelings in dance, but because her parents are second generation choreographers. And she simply could not disappoint them so much without showing interest in this art. She dropped out when the final exams were over and almost her adult life began, but she was still very proud that she had not let them down.
She declared a love of honesty and truth as the need for oxygen and water to exist. She sincerely urged her friends to tell her the truth and nothing but the truth, but she was just as sincerely offended when their truth was at odds with her own truth.
At different times of her life, she defended different values and was sincere in this. At first, she condemned the depraved persons walking around the city without a bra, because it is uncivilized and "not everyone wants to look at it." Then she refused it herself, because it is as natural as the real truth, and you already know how reverently she treated her.
She successfully graduated from medicine, becoming a pretty good dentist, not because she wanted to devote her life to removing stones, installing fillings and crowns, but because her parents' argument about the prestige and monetary value of this kind of activity was convincing. After 11 years of successful practice, she hated this job, considering it meaningless and not revealing its full potential. She proclaimed her readiness to become a cashier in the Glutton chain of stores, just to breathe freely and not carry this load on her. She hardly forced herself to go to work in the morning and still did not leave her.
She could not tell her friend how offended she was at the remark that the new dress accentuated the extra weight that had appeared, because good girls who love the truth did not do that. Therefore, she stopped communicating with her, and in vain attempts to find out what happened, she answered nothing and a radiant smile.
For 37 years she was a good girl and every new day this image weighed her down. She knew that every choice she made was correct and did not understand what to do next. But what she didn't really know was that she liked being a good girl. And this was the truest truth for which she was not ready.
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