2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I'm here. I'm near.
I will see you
I will hear you
I will notice you
Merry, sad, angry
Don't be afraid, I'm with you.
I'm happy that I have you
First of all, to love yourself is to be. I am, I am. At the level of sensations
A healthy ability to love oneself is formed even in childhood. And this ability is formed by the parents. How exactly? When a Parent takes his child for who he is, seriously. This means that the Parent notices and sees him, and not the desired girl or boy. He sees his feelings, experiences, desires, dreams, and not his own. The parent is indulgent to his manifestations, behavior and panders to all his needs. He takes it on handles, presses it to itself. In a word, he shows love and tenderness. Because he is overwhelmed with these feelings.
But as often happens, parents, due to their busyness with their own affairs, personal relationships with a partner, friends, due to their unmet needs or any emotional trauma, lack of love and care, do not take seriously the needs of their children, subjecting them to emotional wounds, blaming, forbidding, controlling, not trusting, comparing with other children, etc. Do not recognize the importance of the child. The child does not feel loved.
As a result of what happens, the matured child, who outwardly looks like an Adult, becomes unable to love himself. He knows how to earn love and does not know what it is like to love himself. How to understand this? He is insecure, touchy, vulnerable, dependent on other people's opinions, envious, jealous, scared, insensitive, distrustful, restless. He cannot lean on himself, since he does not have this support.
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