2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Greetings, friends! And I invite you not to an idle conversation! I suggest it is useful to speculate! About fate! And do you know from what angle?
Do we have effective ways to tangibly improve it?
I will say right away: "We have!" … And I will even give a practical algorithm. But first a metaphor …
Imagine a sick child (or an adult - it doesn't really matter). Have you presented? Here he lies - with a high temperature, weak and exhausted.
What is a visiting doctor's job to heal a person, right?
That he, in fact, due to professional tasks, diligently performs …
Now imagine our history with you during a period of protracted and unsolvable difficulties - breaks that burden life.
This picture can be described using the following metaphor: fate, like the person from the first picture, also gets sick during such periods … And, undoubtedly, requires healing …
Think about it: not a problem that tormented you … A problem is a symptom and only a visible “sector of the iceberg”! And the program plots of the story itself, which have their own script bevels and require "cure", that is - correctional work …
Each therapeutic practice offers its own keys. My approach - a plot-metaphorical strategy - has its own methods …
In fact, we "treat" the patient, launching the basis (healing - "rewriting" her initial plot), thereby changing the course of the subsequent story …
How exactly? Watch the second video …
1. We separate the “sick” (launching a specific plot vector) model.
2. We place it on the virtual screen.
3. We heal, "rewrite", and then …
4. We "replay" the broken algorithm by correcting the scenario bevels.
Read more in my videos …
According to the available (personal) statistics, in the course of such work (requiring time and effort), the attitudes, the vector attitude of the person, his state of mind, and, as a result, the course of the current history change: from “minus” to “plus” …
But! And this is the next point of such work …
5. This healing requires not a formal "redistribution" of stories (through the implementation of practices), but a serious revision of it and deep inner transformations that contribute to spiritual growth.
That's when it happens:
1. "Outgrowth" of previous negative inclusions (I mean problematic scenario bevels) and
2. the acquisition of new - improved current roads.
And fate "recovers" …
In this article I will present for your consideration an example of my work in the format of the author's method "Psychological Mobius Tape". We wish you useful insights!
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Case courtesy of client permission
Working with Dasha to improve her scenario (set by the influence of her dad) relationships with men, we came to a memorable episode of Dasha's childhood, which, in fact, personifies the programmatic mechanism that triggers Dasha's relationships with the men of her life.
The negative situation of childhood as a working algorithm for correction
Dasha, a high school student, returning home from a walk, finds quarreling parents. Father yells at Mom. Swings, pushes. Dasha intervenes, trying to defend her mother. Becomes between mother and father and receives a push from dad, as a result of which he falls on repair and construction material (unplaned boards lying in the corridor). Dasha is injured. Mom (having been piled up on the boards a little earlier) too. The women are insulted and defeated. Physically and mentally hurt …
This episode still hurts Dasha (although almost 30 years have passed). Daria's relationship with her father is strained and difficult. With men - in general, too. Despite a lot of objective advantages: Dasha is attractive, successful, charming and smart.
Correctional and healing work with an episode from childhood
1. I invite Dasha to recall an episode of the famous film "The Butterfly Effect", the one in which Evan, returning to the past, turns to Kelly's father, stopping his treacherous influence on the fate of his daughter.
2. I suggest that Dasha, according to the above principle, act out correctional work with a memorable episode of her childhood story.
3. We virtually “go” to Dashino's specific past and try (according to our current capabilities) to “heal” the episode as much as possible.
This exercise is similar in logic and effect to the famous "Mobius Strip"
- Connect the point of the negative current bevel to the starting point.
- Scroll the history tape (as in the case of the Mobius Strip) 180 degrees. That is, we go to the beginning with a conscious and mature position.
- And having worked out the triggering mechanism, we go out into a new matrix picture, getting a different plot-role-playing algorithm, a different future space.
My know-how. Please remember!
So…
Useful exercise "Psychological Mobius strip"
1. We present in front of us a screen with a specific situation of the past.
2. We unfold the past situation there.
3. We are writing a new scenario in which we from the future heal the negative algorithm of the past as much as possible.
4. Primarily we direct our correctional "visit".
5. We play it on the screen.
6. We pass through ourselves.
7. We analyze the received resources.
The updated situation defines new plot algorithms, but in fact - a different scenario
8. Rehearsing (trying on) future projections.
/ In the video presented in a special section, I will tell you in detail about our work with Dasha. Those interested may be curious … /
Thus, the triggering mechanism healed by our efforts defines for us a different matrix space, a different picture of the world, new roads-scenarios
I recommend giving it a try
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