GLASSES OF MY REALITY

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Pink glasses.

Or maybe yellow ones? Or blue?

Yes, any!

Any glasses of my reality.

Any that you like.

Anyone that responds internally.

Each person has their own reality. Someone sees this world as responsive, kind, where there are many opportunities and a lot of interesting things, while someone is always waiting to be deceived, betrayed, that there is a lot of cruelty and greed in this world. So why do we see seemingly the same reality so differently?

And the answer is impossibly simple.

A person sees the world from the prism of his convictions, those convictions of society, in which he chose to believe. And if a person develops from childhood in a family where earning a lot is the norm, then the belief that earning a lot is impossible; it was not in his reality. Accordingly, if parents are active and see opportunities in everything in life, and not a dead end, then the child will learn the belief that opportunities are everywhere.

Where do beliefs come from? First, from the parental family, or from people who most of all influenced the child's worldview. Further, this is what he hears, sees from the people who will surround him. A glimpse of a phrase from a grandmother, “don't be friends with this boy, he will teach you bad things,” can form the belief that friendship is not always good, and then a person in adulthood may have difficulties in establishing friendly contacts.

A person will then build his reality in relation to his beliefs. Everything that he chose to forbid himself will be forbidden for him, everything that he allows himself will be possible for him. For the most part, beliefs are unconscious, and often deeply hidden, that until a person begins to work on changing his beliefs, he has practically no chance to see his hidden ones.

The main thing to remember is that when we are no longer children, we can change any of our beliefs that interfere with a happy life. Yes, it takes effort, the psyche always resists something new, all the more so that it takes it out of the comfort zone, because then you will also have to live, to act according to new beliefs about yourself, the world and people.

Now the border between people with completely opposite realities is becoming more and more clearly visible. People who believe that everything is bought, that it is difficult to break into "people", that there is deceit and injustice all around, and people who see an opportunity in everything, believe that it is normal to be happy, healthy, successful and rich.

If the glasses of your reality make you happier, richer and healthier, then what's the difference what color they are, if your beliefs contribute to the improvement of your life, then most likely they suit you.

I absolutely do not believe in chance, in illness just like that, because genetics (genetics in your head, not in your blood). And according to the latest scientific data, DNA changes during a person's life, and he himself can influence his DNA. I know that my day, my health and finances depend on my inner state. I know that the world is mirror-like, it reflects what is inside me (guilt entails punishment, resentment forms an offender, pride gives a tyrant in space, greed slows down material flows, and it is more worth sharing with smiles, joy, good mood, and not only material things, etc.)

Conclusions:

1. Our reality is the result of our beliefs about ourselves, the world and other people.

2. Any belief can be changed.

3. Every person has the right to choose his own beliefs, choose what to think about himself, about the world, and what kind of relationships with people he wants to see in his reality.