2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I remember in one of the books by Oleg Roy (to whom I was passionately reading about six years ago) there was such a plot - I'll tell you approximately, from memory …
One person (posthumously) appeared before the Creator, having received an unprecedented chance to replay his story constructively. But in order for the miraculous return to be used in the case, he was not returned to the reference point of fate (he got there later), but was allowed to first look at the decisive events through the eyes of the connected participants in the circumstances. Every day, for a specific period of time, this person alternately turned out to be one or another relative of the common family, thereby collecting personal positions and the holistic meaning of events.
A healing spiritual approach that brings together individual sides.
Why did I remember this? But why …
Approximately the same technique was suggested to me by my therapist in yesterday's planning session.
I will leave the technique a secret, I will only share my impressions from the meeting.
The request concerned a deceased brother, the relationship with whom required some clarification in terms of general work with the previous family algorithms.
A few words in anticipation … As a child, we were very, very friendly. In maturity, the paths diverged. Recent years have become close. But even during the period of sad separation, I worried about my brother and prayed for his progress.
… According to the terms of technology, I had to plunge into the events of past years, not only from my own position, but also from the position of my brother. And in these positions …
- understand
- forgive and
- to let go of some problematic circumstances …
Surprisingly, finding myself in such a non-trivial situation, I saw a situation familiar from the past quite unexpectedly. My brother opened up deeply, dramatically … Understandings of the past expanded to voluminous … It was revealed to me how difficult it was for him then …
- interact with a correct and strict sister, - withstand natural competition (biological competition of siblings),
- to fight the urge to overgrow this FIRST, - don't feel LESS …
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And how, sensing his difficulties, I (from my position) wanted to shout out to him the innermost: "Do not be afraid! I am no bigger, I am older, and I am with you, I am with you!"
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The comprehensions that have come cannot be deleted, you will not forget; and the truth in general is as follows: in our stories there are no offenders - only Teachers; difficult circumstances - School of Life - carefully polish, grow; fate leads along the paths; we are parts of one Whole … Remember the concept of a holographically united Universe? Be sure to read … I will attach a link for you:
At the end of the publication, I will leave a piercingly sad song -
Sergey Lyubavin "To Brother"
Blessed Memory of Sasha
In the picture attached to the top, Sasha and I many years ago, in childhood …
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