2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Hi friends! Let's talk about marriage and family!
Cohabitation or almost cohabitation is different:
1. Monogamous marriage:
- official (civil, traditional);
- cohabitation (unregistered);
- church marriage;
- guest (meetings a couple of times a week or less), - fictitious (non-family goal), - same sex, - misalliance (unequal);
- interrupted (spouses live together, but periodically leave for a year or two), - open marriage (free sexual relations on the side), - "sambo" (there are no obligations to each other, including legal and financial issues, only joint care of children), - serial monogamy (repeated marriages and divorces).
2. Polygamous:
- polyandry (multiple husbands), - polygyny (polygamy), - group cohabitation ("Swedish").
Thus, there is a traditional marriage (official) and alternative (all other forms of marriage).
Marriage is a social institution officially registered by the state that regulates mutual rights and obligations, relations with children and each other. This is a relationship between two in society.
A family is a group of people connected by a common life, mutual support, moral responsibility, the birth and upbringing of children. This is "we and our other relatives."
Important!!! Sometimes a marriage is created without the purpose of creating a family (fictitious) and, conversely, a family without an official marriage. Marriage and family are two different things!
We can say that Love is present or absent, regardless of the stamp in the passport.
This is true.
But at the same time, the experience of counseling shows that the absence of a formal marriage is more common between a man who is not ready to take responsibility and a woman with an unstable self-worth (low self-esteem)
Because if he doesn't want to marry her, then:
a) not ready to take responsibility (immature or allowing previous experience to control his life);
b) did not make his final choice in relation to her (considers other options);
c) thinks outside the box (this is not bad, but if a girl insists on an official marriage, then why is it so scary to put this "insignificant seal"?).
⠀ If a girl does not think of a love friendship without marriage, then it is possible to clarify what needs she covers in marriage.
Most often, these are:
a) social status;
b) legal security;
c) the importance of the initiation rite (adherence to the traditions and rules of the Family).
I am for an official marriage, although I admit that two can be happy without documents).
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