2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
This technique - the invaluable language of the unconscious - answers difficult life questions in which a person is confused, lost … The answers received are usually surprisingly accurate and incredibly useful.
Want to try? Let's run the technique together!
1. First, arm yourself with a piece of paper and a pen.
2. On the first side of the paper - in the center of the page - write your sacramental question.
Here is a recent work with one of my clients (with her permission, of course).
Her question was: what is my story with my ex-husband about?
3. Moving on … Turn the sheet over and divide it into 5 identical vertical columns … We get a table with five columns.
4. We fill in the first column as follows: we need to enter there 16 noun words that arise in our imagination when we think about a question … These are associations that come to mind in a free flow …
Continuing the client example I started …
1. Falling in love.
2. Romance.
3. Sharpness.
4. Taste.
5. Adoration.
6. Light.
7. Unity.
8. Love.
9. Interest.
10. Disappointment.
11. Break.
12. Dream.
13. Longing.
14. Emptiness.
15. Disorder.
16. Silence.
5. We fill in the next column in a certain, special way: it is necessary to sequentially, combining words into pairs, write out a new derivative, as a general association of a pair of words.
I continue to demonstrate the started example. Notice the words in the second column are 8.
1. Falling in love + Romance = Romance.
2. Pungency + Taste = Life.
3. Adoration + Light = Piercing.
4. Unity + Love = Sun.
5. Interest + Disappointment = Confusion.
6. Break + Dream = Fantasy.
7. Longing + Emptiness = Silence.
8. Discord + Silence = Death.
6. Moving on to the third column. We carry out the algorithm shown earlier with the words of the second column. It will be the same with the fourth and fifth columns - according to the following scheme …
I continue my example … Based on the algorithm taken, there are 4 words in the third column.
1. Romance + Life = Youth.
2. Piercing + Sun = Childhood.
3. Confusion + Fantasy = Search.
4. Silence + Death = Rebirth.
7. We come to the penultimate column. We carry out the same manipulation - we shorten our list.
I will illustrate with an example. The fourth column contains only 2 words.
1. Youth + Childhood = Beginning.
2. Search + Rebirth = Transition.
8. And finally, we come to the final column - the fifth, inscribing the derivative of the two remaining words there.
1. Beginning + Transition = Evolution.
9. Here it is! Eureka! The answer to the question asked at the beginning! We read it again.
What is my story with my ex-husband?
The response received is - Evolution!
Needless to say, what was the woman's reaction? For the next half hour, the client enthusiastically shared her thoughts on the topic, as she found the answer point-to-point, very wise! Recently, I have often used a specific technique and always hit the very target - to the point, because the test - through associations - helps to come to the fundamental, meaningful answer that is contained in the depths of the unconscious - in the soul; this answer is always incredibly wise, correct. Especially for its comprehension.
Yesterday I performed this technique in a demo consultation on the resource. Let me give you a piece of our conversation …
# 69 | u649895 | Mariaalfa wrote:
Alena Viktorovna, thank you for your help! Our whole family in a circle had been ill with pneumonia, could not participate fully in our work. If you can help me a little more, I will be very grateful to you !!!
After the illness, my husband lives with us, but yesterday I realized that I was with my mistress. I saw the correspondence, although at first I intuitively felt that the energy was different. I don’t know what to do with all this
I left the client with a task. I asked to perform a test …
Today I receive an answer …
№79 | u649895 | Mariaalfa wrote:
Thanks for the exercise !! Good morning, Alena Viktorovna. To the question "what should I do," the answer is: to live for my own pleasure, without planning
# 80 | u649895 | Mariaalfa wrote:
What now: yesterday I did the exercise: the time line, wrote pieces of paper with goals for work, personal life, family life and stood on them, felt pleasure from the realization of my desires, felt it with my whole body! And when my husband came home, I was already indifferent where and with whom he was
# 80 | u649895 | Mariaalfa wrote:
This caused an increased interest in her husband, tendernes
I am responding to the client …
Our discussion continues. We will continue to comprehend this request. But look how effective this technique is, even in demo mode:
- clarifying the situation, - improving the condition and
- promoting a request …
Take on arms! Use for the general therapeutic benefit! The results are impressive and rewarding!
Finally, I will leave that very famous video with a deep philosophical message …
Where is happiness, where is it?
So where?
Where is it, happiness, where is it?
So where?
This is happiness, this is it.
Happiness is here, here, here it is.
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Happiness is in life itself - in its priceless moments! How helpful it is to remember this!
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