2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Author: Tatiana Varukha
Leave on time - home, even if no one is waiting for you there, from an incendiary party, from guests without a "buddy", from inappropriate connections and bad habits, from depression and dark thoughts, from difficult memories, from relationships that have become obsolete, from people destroying you or destroying your partner next to you. Give him and yourself a chance to find someone (and maybe yourself) with whom it will be better, more comfortable, calmer and in the form in which each of you needs it. If you are not able to give it to each other for one reason or another, do not deprive each other of the attempts and hope to find it in other relationships and in yourself.
Do not be greedy, do not take away from others their chances of being happy the way they understand it, and from yourself - yours. Because each of us is at his own point of evolution, and moves in his own rhythm, radiates at his own frequency, and vibrates on his own wave and gets his own experience. And if you entered into resonance with someone - you found each other and your dance together, if into a protracted dissonance - get the necessary experience, sign under it, thank and … leave on time. Do not set in motion a mechanism that will crush you under the harsh oppression of circumstances, when you will be forced to make this decision in conditions much less convenient for you, and where you will have to slip out from under the millstones of very superficial, but painfully wounding, "social" judgments, which it is not about your true, sincere and life motives, about your exhausted patience and long attempts to "save" something, "save" someone.
Leave on time, do not leave deep scars on the body of your life, do not infect your soul with a gluttonous virus of guilt, a feeling that with incredible zeal tears you away from your exclusively unique life and only yours and you from yourself. Leave in time, do not burn drawings on the fragile fabric of your destiny. And do not encroach on someone else's skin.
Value your life more than others value yours. Leave on time if someone puts their life above yours, because to keep you answered first and foremost for your life and only then for someone else's. No one came into this life to be offered on the sacrificial altar. And life was not given to man so that he would strive for the sacrifice of the great gifts given to him from above: life and the ability to love! It is not difficult to lose yourself, it is not difficult to dissolve yourself in another, in someone else's life, in someone else's world, in someone else's reality. Even this is easy to demand and desire. Finding yourself is hard. Only we can determine and admit the measure of the use of ourselves. After all, sacrificing yourself in vain, in addition to the measure of participation in someone else's life allotted to you, you automatically do not give yourself (or maybe someone who sincerely needs it), or in some other segment of your life you will not have enough at all a little - just those wasted energy …
Any relationship is fruitful when there is exchange, interaction, return. This is a pair dance. But if you began to trample each other's legs to pain and blood, you need to stop this dance, and after healing the wounds, start a new beautiful dance, perhaps with a new partner. And so in any relationship, partnership, family, work … Learn to leave on time, both within the created situation, and from the very situations and circumstances in your life. You always know this moment, trust yourself, do not persuade yourself, do not be deceived and do not deceive others … There are no bad people, no matter how we would like to argue about it. There are people who are different from us. For the true Thought of this sacred rite under the sacred name of Life is not known to us, but it is filled with absolutely everything that is inside and outside, above our understanding and within its limits, animate and inanimate. And God has no other hands, except ours with you, and other responsibility, except ours with you to ourselves and to each other, but initially - to ourselves. Everything that happens in our life, everything that happens around us and on the distant Galapagos Islands of Ecuador - not only with the permission of the Almighty, but also with you and me! We allowed our life to be what it is, we put this time of change into action, we tore the lever from the spring that had escaped with all compressed and compressed force and now beats in a convulsively chaotic free floating. We allowed the shades of gray to prevail in our lives, we allowed ourselves to be afraid of everything, we allowed ourselves to be outsiders in our own lives. Look around, maybe it's time to … get away from it. It is incredibly difficult to give up everything that has become obsolete and leave, no matter what anyone writes about it. Leaving is difficult, but leaving on time is a must. Ripen inside your infinity as much as you need, but leave on time. Leave in time the judgments and opinions of others, turn your gaze to yourself. Where is your fulcrum? After all, this is the only way you can turn the whole world. Do not look for it in others, another, another. I'll give you a secret - she's not there! As there is no happiness in someone if it is not in you.
Get away in time from obsessive illusions and imposed fears, but keep striving, keep dreaming, keep trying. Don't be afraid to be wrong - it means you tried. Do not be afraid of the reaction of other people, you still cannot predict it 100% until you do what you have planned, and if you can, even more so, fear is meaningless. But you will have a chance … to leave in time. Yes, just leave and move on. We understand when we do not have something that we would like to have, when we were not given something, but we waited, but we never think about what we were saved from, without giving us what we want now. The truth is simple - everything comes on time, even miracles. Therefore … leave on time, do not detain anyone. Because if you are late - the script of life is already being rewritten for other people …
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