Emotion Of A Woman = Behavior Of A Man

Video: Emotion Of A Woman = Behavior Of A Man

Video: Emotion Of A Woman = Behavior Of A Man
Video: How to control emotion and influence behavior | Dawn Goldworm | TEDxEast 2024, May
Emotion Of A Woman = Behavior Of A Man
Emotion Of A Woman = Behavior Of A Man
Anonim

I very often receive letters complaining about the behavior of men, about misunderstanding of why a man makes this or that decision not in favor of a woman. In these letters, there are many accusations, offenses and anger in relation to the behavior of men. They are filled with misunderstanding, helplessness.

Very often in my trainings, I explain that any behavior of a man generates a woman's emotion. An example and proof can be at least the fact that with different women the same man behaves and manifests in completely different ways: with some he is polite and kind, with others rude. For some women, a man can do everything, he can find time, opportunities and ways! For others, there is never time, desire and opportunity. And it is worth noting that this is not just so …

Even an elementary request, such as treating to a cup of coffee with some women, is a pleasure, and with others it is annoying. Why? Here is an example from the life of my girls who, after the training, simply completed the task.

Girl number 1 - Asked 6 men to treat them to coffee, all REFUSED. Politely, but refused. There was no time, there is no large sum with me, there is no possibility now, with my wife. When asked, I experienced emotions such as awkwardness, discomfort, shame, resentment, anger, irritation, embarrassment, and self-pity.

Girl number 2 - I asked 5 men to treat them to coffee, everyone AGREED !. We were treated to coffee, given flowers, said compliments, invited to take a walk and filled up with compliments. What emotions did she experience: lightness, cheerfulness, self-love, respect for men and herself, confidence.

You will not be very surprised, but the girls were in the same cafe and asked, ATTENTION, from the same men!))) Yes, you can check it yourself, I personally have been conducting this experiment 114 times, more than 1,000 women have passed this exercise and the result is always the same. The behavior of men depends on your emotions!

When a man does not behave the way you expected, wanted, imagined, or his behavior does not give you pleasure, you should think about your emotions that you experienced before his behavior and why did you attract such a man into your life at all? What is there in you that resonates with him? Blaming a man FOR HIS BEHAVIOR IS A USELESS LESSON.

I often hear from women that he always earned little, was always rude, beat and my emotions had nothing to do with it. The only question is, why are you with this man? Why do you only see those men who cheat on their wives? Why did all your men always spend little time on you? Why exactly in a relationship with you did men disappear and appear only for a while? Why men who are married are attracted to you. Men from other countries? You can undoubtedly blame men for everything, only the question does not solve it in any way.

NEGATIVE EMOTIONS OF A WOMAN:

- resentment

- anger

- irritation

- disappointment

- aggression

- anxiety

- jealousy

- distrust (control)

- rejection (when a woman says "I myself" and does not allow a man to prove herself)

- disrespect

- disgust

- insincerity

- competes with a man

Cause NEGATIVE REACTIONS (BEHAVIOR) IN MEN:

- offends

- do not appreciate

- does not devote enough time (disappears)

- hits

- starts drinking

- humiliates

- changes

- angry, aggressive

- does not give money

- does not take responsibility for the woman

- getting poorer

- loses interest in you

When the woman is filled:

- self-love

- self-acceptance

- respect

- good

- sincerity

- openness

- admiration

- recognition

- self-confidence

- gratitude

Then a man shows himself from the best sides and becomes better, he has a desire to develop and move forward. If a man is at a low level of life and development, then he will not approach such a woman. He will give preference to the one in which there is already what he manifests!

THE PROBLEM IS ONLY THAT the woman does not realize and does not feel even half of the emotions that I have listed. Only when she begins to do everything herself and when the man does not want to take responsibility, when the man begins to cheat, finds a woman to whom he gives money, only then does the wife begin to realize that she felt disrespect and mistrust.

Only when the husband stops hugging, kissing more often, showing care and affection does the woman begin to feel that such an emotion as resentment and anger is sitting in her.

And a woman today does not recognize half of her emotions, because she has become accustomed from childhood that the manifestation of emotions is shameful and bad. That is why half of real painful emotions are covered with POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS, because women do not know any other way to smooth out negative emotions, no one talks about it. NOBODY SAYS THAT NEGATIVE EMOTIONS SHOULD GET RID OF, AND DO NOT SILVER AND HIDE THEM FROM YOURSELF. 1 way is widespread - FORCE YOURSELF to think positively, FORCE YOURSELF not to hear, not to feel. Only the problem from this becomes worse and turns into a disease in the body. In this connection, in order to solve my problems in the matter of female happiness, I want to share simple steps that once helped me in solving my female problems:

1) Observe the behavior of men around you - their behavior is your emotions

2) Recognize your negative emotions and throw them out in a way that suits you (scream, cry, go through meditation, hit the pillow)

3) Be honest at least to yourself!

4) Pump up your feminine energy

Your emotions = the behavior of a man … Having realized this with your body, feelings and head, you will move not only to the level of awareness, but also qualitatively improve your relationship with your man.

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