2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
It is very important and necessary for each of us:
- Respectful attention from other people;
- Fair treatment from them;
- Their recognition of our values.
Based on this, worthy attention to ourselves, an adequate attitude towards ourselves and self-worth is formed within us.
So that's what I mean. I mean that each of us starts with ourselves.
Pay more quality attention to your family, friends and family. In the modern world, everyone needs attention. And this attention should be filled with love, care, competent relationship building. We were all taught different subjects in schools. However, we were not taught to build relationships competently, to be spouses, friends, parents. And that kind of relationship starts with attention. Much begins with the fact that one person paid attention to another person. And the first attention is filled with interest, curiosity, interest, a desire to know a person, a reverent attitude towards a person. In the first attention, there is almost no place for criticism, and there is an effort NOT TO HARM, DO NOT HURT, DO NOT DO IT NICE. It is important to keep this kind of attention to each other. And if you haven't saved it, then it's never too late to resume it. And what is most interesting is that just when it’s too late, the person is no longer alive, we regret that we did not pay high-quality attention to him.
Be honest and fair to each other. Admit your mistakes. Don't blame others. Talk about your feelings without blaming. A person does not always know how his words or actions will reflect on you. Do not transfer your life situations to others. Accept the other's choice as you accept what you choose in your life. Build relationships with people without the preconceptions imposed by others. Everyone has their own way of building relationships. If I cannot make friends with my colleague, then this does not mean that my best friend cannot have a warm, trusting relationship with the same colleague. Try first to find out well about the person (from himself), and then create an opinion.
When we start to admire the values of others, we become more aware of our own values. Devaluation is one of the most common phenomena in the modern world. At school, they were discounted through grades. Then the institute. Job. Also, depreciation can be found both within families and in friends' relationships. Each has its own reasons for the depreciation. Sometimes people do not even understand that the simple phrase "well, this" is already a devaluation. One must learn to see the values of others. It is important for people to talk about these values. It is necessary for other people and for you personally. You cannot voice to others about their values, strengths, talents - look for the answer in yourself. Look for the reason within yourself that is blocking you. Look for that feeling, emotion, state, life situation, example from your environment, which does not allow you to admire the values of others.
Sometimes it seems to us that we are doing something for others. And the first thing I did was urge you to act towards others. However, these actions help you in the first place in relation to yourself.
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