2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The neurotic can tolerate. A healthy person will never tolerate. But he can endure. When I'm underwater, then I have to endure and not breathe. And while I endure, I do only those things that would help to escape from under the water.
A few words for self-diagnosis. Although, of course - the choice is yours.
If you are of a neurotic nature, then you often do not what you want, but what you have to. A healthy person never does what he should. And if he does not want to do something, then he does only what he is forced to do.
Replace the must with the forced, and you will immediately feel better. Then if you are forced to arrange your birthday, then invite yourself a smaller number of people.
The neurotic can tolerate. A healthy person will never tolerate. But he can endure. When I'm underwater, then I have to endure and not breathe. And while I endure, I do only those things that would help to escape from under the water.
The worst thing in this life is dependence on another person. While I am dependent, I do only those things that take me out of dependence on anyone else.
If I am financially dependent on my parents, then I direct all my affairs to get rid of this dependence.
If young people reasoned like this, they would never go to discos, holidays, etc. Until they had escaped from the dependence of their parents. The same applies to dependence on a husband (wife), boss, etc. And the acquisition of skills to the level of the highest professionalism leads to independence.
So, the traits of a neurotic.
1. The neurotic often struggles for status. How else can one explain the fact that many students are trying to get a higher grade with a bribe? If he was worried about skills, then the deuce might be happy. It's not so bad to talk to a knowledgeable person once again.
2. The neurotic takes into account all the circumstances. A healthy person takes into account only his own needs, takes into account all other circumstances.
3. The neurotic often experiences feelings of guilt. A healthy person in similar situations only experiences annoyance.
4. The neurotic is touchy. A healthy person perceives offensive words addressed to him as friendly criticism and tries to correct himself, and if this does not concern him, then he simply does not pay attention to it.
5. The neurotic is greedyhealthy thrifty.
6. The neurotic is cowardly and anxious, healthy is considerate.
7. The neurotic is stubbornhealthy is persistent.
8. The neurotic is lazyhealthy is resourceful.
9. The neurotic seeks to maintain the status quo. The healthy strives for the new unknown.
If you find neurotic traits in yourself, kill the hope for improvement and engage in correction. A healthy person has no hope. He knows that neuroticism does not stand still. It deepens and sooner or later will lead to illness.
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