2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
With regard to loneliness, there are a huge number of generic and social prohibitions: "loneliness is bad", "loneliness, a kind of curse", "if a woman is lonely, she is inferior", "if a man is lonely, then something is wrong with him." These stereotypes prevail over a person. Therefore, often, when one relationship ends, without even understanding the reasons and essence of the conflict, betrayal or betrayal, a person "jumps" into other relationships. By depriving yourself of the most important thing - living. Many people do not channel feelings through themselves, precisely because they constantly break off contact with themselves. And for this there is a cool excuse "you have to be strong and positive" or "why think about it at all." And about what and what hurts, it remains unclear. And why can one talk about claims and condemnation, but not about anger and hatred that really torment a person's soul?
A lot of people complain about their loneliness. They talk about their suffering, how unlucky they are to bear the cross, or perhaps punishment. But in fact, this is a screen that separates them from reality - from their own feelings. From my soul. Then questions arise that a person can carry all his life, but still cannot find the answer: "Who am I?", "Why am I?", "What is my purpose?", "Why is my life empty?"
Speaking of emptiness. Many have lived in this state for decades. The link "loneliness is emptiness" has entered the consciousness of many generations. Sometimes it is not even clear what a person is running from - from loneliness or emptiness?
But what is this emptiness about? If a person who feels lonely would dare to explore it, he would learn a lot of interesting things about himself. And the question "who am I and why?" would become irrelevant. Because a man or woman would connect with their tasks and goals, and the soul would finally connect with its path.
The feeling of emptiness occurs only in one case, when a person is separated from the most unique part of himself. And loneliness is just a pointer to treasures - hidden, hidden and so far inaccessible under the rubble of resentment, claims, disagreement and anger.
How to get to them?
Taking the risk of being bold is to openly face your fear of loneliness and begin to explore your inner emptiness.
After all, the road is mastered only by the one walking, and only the desperate gets the treasures out of his loneliness.
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