2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
In search of IMPUNITY, you can live your whole life, or at least a very long time. What's the point? You want, for example, that you have everything and you have nothing for it. Haha
At the end of this path, such a person will always come to the conclusion that for everything that you have done, you need to be responsible, pay. At least pay with your health. As a maximum to bear responsibility according to the law.
As a result of the search for IMPUNITY, anxiety increases, which very much drains forces from the body. The forces that should go to your health, beauty, prosperity, freedom of action go to restrain this anxiety, to suppress fear. To keep the roof from blowing away from anxiety, you have to get nervous. And constantly look for the culprit in your anxiety. At work, colleagues are suspected, at home for the family, on the street bystanders.
Those who are looking for something and cannot find anything can turn their attention in this direction, see, and who is responsible? Accept the fact that I'm looking for IMPUNITY. And make a CHOICE. Every time you do something, you shouldn't want IMPUNITY for your actions, or whoever will cover me, regret it, understand.
And to take responsibility in my actions and desires and make a choice - to do it for me or not. Do I need it at such a price or not. And not to bargain, but to take responsibility for yourself and your actions and desires.
Responsibility gives freedom. When there is freedom, life becomes easier, more pleasant, more fun. Anxiety and fears go away by themselves. Self-confidence appears. Life becomes clearer, more joyful.
If there is a burden in your life for things and events unpunished, then it is never too late to change your mind and repent. Forgive yourself and others, correct the situation if possible, or work it out in therapy with a psychologist.
Getting out of the vicious circle of search:
IMPUNITY → CHOICE → RESPONSIBILITY.
The way out is to take responsibility upon yourself, having made a choice in favor of responsibility, and not the desire to have impunity for your desires and actions.
The psychologist can help you regain your responsibility for yourself, responsibility will give you access to inner strength. Being responsible for your own life is one of the main tasks and resources of a person.
If there is responsibility, there is also access to internal resources. There is no responsibility, a person seeks support outside himself and often finds himself immediately loses it, because such support is false.
He can even impose someone to be responsible for his life. And then it hangs like a burden on someone's neck. In the end, it becomes difficult for a person, and he sheds this burden, returning responsibility to its author.
I wish you an easy choice by letting go of your search for impunity.
Respectfully yours, psychologist, RPT processor, Svetlana Miroshnichenko.
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