2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Sea, sea - a bottomless world”- a familiar melody sounds. And we begin to think about how good it would be to lie on the warm sand. In short, our thoughts come down to vacation. How to spend it so that there is no spoiled mood and disappointment?
The task becomes more urgent when we plan to go on vacation with the whole family.
You have come to the sea, but this does not mean that your vacation has already begun. Children scatter, there are only temptations around: ice cream, cotton candy, trampolines, water slides, various attractions - you want to try and experience everything.
You cannot agree to everything, refuse and listen to tantrums, you have no strength. How to be? How to organize the rest in such a way that it really was a rest, and not a sheer hassle? The task is not easy, but doable.
The key to a good rest is the correct behavior of the parents.
First, you need to think about what you will do with your children on the road.if it is long. On the train, the child has the opportunity to move around and get a lot of new impressions. However, when the indomitable thirst for knowledge is satisfied, "mortal boredom" will come.
The kid is poorly oriented in time, and concepts like “a few more hours”, “just a little bit left” are an empty phrase for him. If the child is nervous, do not leave him alone in the compartment, even for a minute!
Be sure to think about how you will entertain the baby when the very fact of the trip will cease to be a “new” experience, and the child will require a “cultural program”. On the train and on the plane, books with pictures "in the subject", magazines to be torn apart, paper and felt-tip pens, a graphic magnetic tablet on which you can draw an infinite number of times (one-year-old children especially appreciate them), notes with children's songs and fairy tales, a truck will come in handy on a string that can be rolled in the aisle of the train.
In the selection of entertainment, it is important to follow a few simple rules. First, do not take out all this wealth at once, each item needs a novelty effect! Each new "pleasure" should appear as soon as the previous one is mastered and gets tired of the order.
It is quite possible to entertain school-age children with verbal games: "Into the city", "Sea battle", "Tanks", "Hangman" with these games you can captivate teenagers and even neighbors in the compartment, and you can also organize a competition for the best anecdote, history. A ride in a car allows you to make stops whenever you want and deviate from the route as you like. However, the child gets more tired in the car than in other modes of transport. The reason is that there is nowhere to warm up in the car.
To pass the time with older children, you can play. For example, counting cars of a certain color, or noticing funny advertisements, playing word games, "finish the story."
It is advisable to make stops every 2 hours if the child is awake. While the salon is being ventilated, wash the little traveler, play outdoor games, arrange a picnic-snack.
You have finally reached your destination! Now you need to get to the hotel, boarding house, sanatorium and settle down. Do everything calmly without fuss, if any difficulties arise, explain to the children. You always need to talk to children, they need to explain what is happening, not to hide anything. If you are internally calm, even if you sort things out intelligently with the hotel manager, then the child will understand that there is nothing to worry about.
Children from 4 years old may well perceive information about your plans. You voice your actions to them: first we will unpack our things, and then we will go to eat, and then we will swim.
Next, planning the "Cultural Program"
There is no need to try to cram more health, knowledge and impressions into the child in a short period of time. From a psychological point of view, this is a desire to eat several months in advance. Of course, traveling is an expensive pleasure, especially when you are traveling with the whole family, and you want to relax "to the maximum". It is necessary to make sure that visiting the sights is not tiresome for the child.
It is better not to take small children on excursions at all or to approach the choice of excursion trips more carefully. Take older children to those excursions that are interesting to them. It is advisable to motivate children in advance, to familiarize themselves with historical monuments through books and photographs.
Rest by the water … Small children should always be in your field of vision. In order to be able to lie down and rest at least a little, parents should watch the children one by one.
Any parent should clearly understand: no matter how old the child is - five, ten or fifteen, no one except the parents is responsible for what happens on vacation.
You can blame someone for a child injuring his leg in a water park or hitting the water while riding a banana. Only this will not make it easier. If you have a suspicion, if you are afraid of attractions and "bananas" - do not follow the lead of the children. Just take your child to a place where there is no such entertainment.
Talk to your children, explain, but do not force, if the child does not want some kind of activity on vacation, you do not need to force him … This applies to children of all ages. The child is three years old and he does not want to get into the water, but do you think that he needs to plunge to be healthier? The child is fifteen years old and he also does not want to climb into the water, but do you think that he will burn out in the sun? Burn - anoint with cream. There is no need to overcome the child's resistance and spend a lot of strength and energy on it.
You should not drag your child to rest just to make him swim or sunbathe. Respect your children's wishes. And then there is a chance for everyone to have a good rest!
Be calm and confident that everything will go well and then your rest and pleasant adventures will begin on the way.
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