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And the word is … frightening. Once again, no one pronounces it. And if you can't avoid it, then they try to say quickly, so that God forbid, they don't get attached. People are not so afraid of any disease as oncology.
What can we say, horror, of course. And not just “horror”, but “horror-horror”. You can get sick and die right away. Well, if not immediately, then very quickly. And you can learn, be treated, suffer, fight, be operated on and survive. And then a hero.
A mysterious disease, dark and mysterious. Creepy and creepy.
Like children climbing slippery steps into an old unlit basement, squealing and grabbing each other, frightened and excited, some of us are fascinated and fascinated looking towards this disease.
What's so alluring about her?
Firstly, - death.
To rid oneself of this mortal world, and the world from itself, and even to leave as a hero, almost like a “war hero”, is a tempting offer.
"An end to my suffering and worries …"
Lie in the coffin, close the lid, and there is silence and no one, only flowers and rustle of herbs on top …
You do not want?
Well, in vain, in vain)))
Chosenness
Frankly speaking, God does not send such a test to everyone. And if he did, then he knew who to send. Chosen one, then.
Meaning of life appears, especially before the looming end. Depth and wisdom. Almost the path to enlightenment. True, short. Well, as long as you can.
If death does not tempt you, you do not strive for enlightenment, and it seems that everything is in order with meaning, that is, something that is very difficult to refuse, especially in the second half of life - sincere participation, attention, care, compassion, from the fact that from now on and forever and ever you are the number one person in your family. And even when you leave for another world, then respect and respect are guaranteed to you. They will speak in a whisper and with a breath, pouring sacred awe on the interlocutor.
“If you want to be a hero, be born disabled. If you want to be a double hero, be born disabled in Russia”
To paraphrase Ruben David Gonzalez Gallego, the author of these lines and the story of a disabled orphanage childhood, I want to tell you that you will not find a better disease to become a hero.
First, you can get sick, suffer, fight and die. Hero.
Secondly, you can get sick, send everything, live every second of your life, and die. Some even admire this alignment. Hero.
Thirdly, you can get sick, suffer, fight and win! Definitely a hero! The person who defeated the most terrible disease is not in competition. If you're a professor, that's half the battle. If you are a cancer survivor professor, you are Sacred hero … And there is no person who does not know this. Here, tell me you did not know about it? That this is just mega cool?
And at the same time you can atone for all sinsthat you attributed to yourself. Whatever you blame, an operation to remove a diseased organ will redeem everything. If one operation seems not enough for you, then you can grow oncology somewhere else and sacrifice this organ.
Well, last but not least - finally you can live at your own pace, see the beauty of life, appreciate every moment, breathe air, not do bullshit, get away from the hustle and bustle, immerse yourself in yourself, spend time with your children, with your favorite books, or start doing whatever you wanted but couldn't afford. And now you don't owe anyone anything. Briefly speaking, BE YOURSELF.
Well, not happiness, huh?
Attention, love, recognition, deliverance from sins and the ability to be yourself are what is sewn into one of the most terrible diseases
The temptation is great. Especially if someone in the family has already chosen this disease as a way to get everything they need from life. If the family has already recognized this method as the best and several generations choose oncology.
Oncology is not inherited, it is “traditionally chosen”. "Just like grandma," just like mom."
The disease is chosen as a way of receiving from people what is vital - attention, love, support, participation, recognition of your achievements, permission to be yourself and go at your own pace, compassion and recognition - but it is not customary in a family to receive all this just like that, without disease, and therefore it is not clear how to receive in another way.
How to get sincere attention and participation to your person if you are not sick? Are you worthy of attention if everything is okay with you? What about compassion? What about understanding and support?
What needs to be done to attract attention to you? To get this attention “legitimately” without blaming yourself?
Apparently, for this you need to somehow try.
The psychosomatic way of satisfying one's needs is very tempting. And the body goes towards the choice of the individual. This choice may be unconscious, but it is made by the personality.
Illness is chosen as a way to satisfy one's needs. the most faithful and familiar way to date
Disease as a way makes it possible to satisfy the most basic human needs - for love, connection, care, attention.
85% of people visiting polyclinics come primarily for care and attention. So that someone would worry about them, ask how they feel, how they are doing, and shared with them their sorrows and sorrows, took part of the responsibility for their lives on themselves. To feel that you are not alone - someone “looks after” you, “makes sure that you have everything in order” - even if it is a doctor.
Oncology belongs to the group of those diseases that provide special bonuses
Systemic oncology guarantees a quick and painful death. There is nothing to operate on. The person dies quickly enough.
Organ oncology, when one organ is affected, makes it possible to experience the whole range of problems from the horror of immersion in the awareness of the disease to the struggle, the experience of the operation and victory. It makes it possible to go all the way of the hero and become him. She can become both a way of self-realization and the most significant event in life, she can add value and uniqueness to herself in her own eyes and respect in the eyes of others. Fighting and conquering illness can be the most valuable achievement in life.
It is not easy to give up this temptation, especially if there are examples of “heroes” in the family and environment.
A disease with amputation of an organ can be chosen by an individual as a way of “paying the bills”, “punishing oneself for..”. And a suitable organ is selected for this, depending on what you have to pay for and which part of the body can “bear the blame for it”.
Oncology is one of those diseases that are chosen by an adult in order to solve their problems on the path of life
It is chosen, completely unaware of this fact.
Therefore, I have revealed to you in sufficient detail all the “treasures” of the disease, so that you think about what you personally want in this life. And how are you used to receiving all this.
Is there a way for you to receive - care, love, affection, attention, tenderness, trepidation, recognition, compassion, respect from those closest to you and other people not due to malaise and serious illnesses?
Can you face your guilt, admit your responsibility, restore internal and external justice without tearing something away from yourself and paying the bills with your body?
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