2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Each person wants to see next to him the one he will love. There are of course exceptions - marriages of convenience, but that's a completely different story. But in reality, one often has to deal with situations when a person acts as a life partner, whom a woman cannot call her own. There are many reasons for this state of affairs. Today we will try to consider some of them.
To begin with, some women, especially those in their 30s, are also heavily influenced by public opinion. There has long been a stereotype in society that a woman should be married. Even despite the fact that recently there have been many examples suggesting the opposite, for some women the opinion of others who are in this mood is very significant. Even if a woman used to resist this pressure, it often happens that she herself begins to give up her positions. In this case, it is not an objective assessment of a man's qualities that comes first, but his attitude towards the woman herself. If he says he loves, you can try. Following the opinion of others leads such a woman to marry, even if she does not feel any feelings for this man. According to the principle "Tolerate, fall in love" relationships are built that give a woman practically nothing, except for the social status of a wife. At the same time, we are not even talking about any feelings and satisfaction of emotional needs. Cooking, cleaning, washing and children are the directions in which a woman will, in most cases, realize herself in family life with this approach. Moreover, most likely you will have to restrain yourself and endure the completely unpleasant habits of your husband.
The next point is habit. A relationship with a man has been going on for a long time. In the beginning, there may have been passion, but over time, it all calmed down. But the habit of being together remained, mutual acquaintances appeared, to whom it was customary to visit together. And gradually the habit spreads to your immediate surroundings, and your parents and friends get used to it. There are no feelings, but somehow it is customary to be around. But over time, the habit may well develop into a consumer attitude, both on the part of the man and on the part of the woman. And then the relationship is more reminiscent of the interaction of two people who do not have any interest in each other, those more than any love.
Another point that is always relevant for women who have problems with self-esteem. Such a representative of the fair sex, often lives with a feeling of fear that she may forever be alone. With such internal attitudes, a man, even despite his shortcomings and possibly vices, becomes very desirable for such a woman. "Better with someone than one" they endure this slogan as an excuse for their actions. Later, even realizing that this man does not suit them, they still stay with him, but out of a feeling of pity, both for him and for themselves too. It is clear that the atmosphere of communication in such couples is peculiar.
Choosing a life partner is a very difficult task. But it can be solved if it is treated as an action that will affect the rest of your life.
Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.
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