2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I want to tell the readers how amazingly interesting a number of deep inner comprehensions are built in the analysis of psychological difficulties. A therapeutic conversation, unraveling the problematic lace, reveals the distinct patterns of mental algorithms and schemes. And all the difficult things are slowly becoming clear. And this is an almost mystical gift - our inner discoveries are so amazing.
Let me give you a short but interesting example of a recent working meeting that overwhelmed my client …
- Alena, you know, but in my childhood I did not have anything of my own … Everything that seemed mine could be irretrievably taken away. Look … One day my mother gave me a player. In those days, it was a real, priceless Gift. I was proud of my gift! I took him for walks and listened, listened, listened - literally without stopping - my favorite music, songs, texts … But once the player was taken away for unimportant behavior. I, of course, grieved, but I understood - in all fairness - I was guilty. But then, after a short time, the player for some reason was given to the older sister: my mother said - she needs it more, she is studying English. This unjust act is still like a ulcer on the heart. The player was mine, they gave it to me - why was mine taken away from me for good, by what right was it transferred to another?
- Oh, how bitter! I sympathize! Tell me, how do you feel now, remembering that situation?
- Resentment and helplessness! With regard to their violated rights - the rights to personal property.
- This is very important - I agree! Invincible rights to personal property. Does that situation have a cross-section with your current one?
- Oh, listen, but I still have nothing of my own … As if a spell was imposed … Even in childhood … Through such situations … Lord, yes, this is probably the most important of all existing problems. It’s just that I didn’t know how to formulate something like that for myself. And now I understand! I am still renting apartments, owning a common property, sharing someone else's…. Even the relationship with her husband - and those, as it turned out, are about merging, without personal boundaries. Now it's clear: I don't have a basic, initial right have your … Lord, I am acting according to the formula: "I owe everyone and have nothing" … That's a discovery!
- What do you feel now, comprehending the current?
- Incredible resentment and loss - just like in my childhood … For that selected player …
- Got you! Let's take back our undisputed rights to personal property, to personal property, to ours. And allow yourself new, mature prescriptions …
This concludes …
I wanted to show the readers what wonderful discoveries are made by the psychologist and the client. Discoveries of important, semantic truths that first create human strategies, and then our life … Discoveries that can not only clarify, but also improve our reality …
I wrote a publication with gratitude to a regular client for an amazing talent for comprehending my mental difficulties, transforming them into important life lessons.
/ The author of this publication is a professional psychologist Alena Viktorovna Blishchenko. /
From the author: This material is published with client permission. And it is on display for important indicative purposes.
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