2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Have you ever had such a disgusting dream that after waking up there was a desire to just get into the shower and wash off all this nasty stuff, and never touch it again? I am sure that everyone had this. And it happens to me. I wake up, as if rolled out in the mud, and there is no strength to grab the pen to record a dream. I stand under the shower for a long, long time, washing away this night obsession. But the strange thing is, it does not want to leave in any way, now and then returning to me during the day in the form of images, lightning-fast like a flash. Why is this happening?
First of all, it is worth remembering the statement of C. G. Jung that all the images that come to us in a dream are ourselves, some parts of our Soul, some features inherent in us.
And if the dream is unbearably disgusting, it only means that in a dream we have touched something that painfully, to the point of despair, we do not want to admit in ourselves, something that we have long pushed into the depths of the subconscious and are trying with all our might to keep there. This is actually an ordinary projection. Indeed, in real life, we are often annoyed by people mirroring our own traits that we do not want to recognize in ourselves. The same thing happens in a dream.
But why does our subconscious mind torment us by showing pictures, from which we then cannot wash off. Remember that a dream always works for us, even if its images frighten or repel us. Thus, in my opinion, a dream draws our attention to something very important. And here I recall C. G. Jung's statement that the Shadow always contains a Resource, a very powerful Resource that can become a support and support.
Yesterday I felt it very well in my dream. I dreamed that my classmate Sveta T. (in my dreams she has been acting as "Irma" for a long time) and her husband ended up in an unfamiliar city and went somewhere for a long time. Then we entered the building, and it turned out that my gynecologist lives there. It turned out that Sveta had come to her to abort twins. Next, there is a dialogue between the Gynecologist and Sveta:
(D): - Why do you do abortions so often?
(S): - Well, you know that last time I could not give birth.
(G): - Well, you can tell these tales to your husband, but I don't need to. Everyone can give birth. But you're having an abortion because the baby isn't from your husband, right?
This dialogue is heard both by me and by Sveta's husband, who is enraged by these words. Sveta is taken away for an abortion. An abortion is done in another room, but for some reason I see all this aborted mass coming out of Sveta.
I am very worried that we will miss the train home. And at this time from somewhere a cry of despair is heard: - Save! Help! Svetin's husband runs out and stands in the middle of the courtyard-well, listening to where the sound is coming from. I really want to leave this place home, but I can not leave neither Sveta nor her husband. After some time, Svetin's husband appears and says that he got married.
When I woke up, it was so disgusting for me to remember the dream that I did not even write it down.
However, in a dreaming group that I attend, I decided to share it. And suddenly one of the participants associated my dream with the film Miss Peregrine's House for Peculiar Children. And here I got the puzzle. After all, I also cannot bring myself to go to this film, despite the requests of the children. I cannot look at the ugliness, for me it is unbearable. And the meaning of the film is precisely in the fact that in these very deformities, in the dissimilarities, there is a powerful resource that can prevent a catastrophe and change the world.
And, I realized that I need to face something disgusting and unbearable in me, that I am trying with all my might to abort from myself, because this is my Resource and my Strength.
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