2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Isn't that familiar? And the creature doesn't care about you, which is partly why the process of forgetting takes a long time, is painful. The beauty of such a marital status is its constancy. If the creature can be forgotten and erased from the soul - this is no longer a family, but letting go of the problem.
But codependent relationships have their own, fairly stable laws. And being in an alliance with a phantom sometimes gives more emotions than an ordinary relationship: don't feed with honey - let me suffer. All the standard advice for a situation like this fly by. A person who "created a family" with a partner who left him will hold on tightly to his illusory world. Because he is comfortable in it, he built it himself, everything here is mixed in harmonious proportions.
This fantasy cannot last forever. One day there comes a moment during which the insight comes: everything is crap. What was so carefully built in the imagination threatens to collapse right on your head. Why do we remember our exes for so long? Why can't we get rid of annoying thoughts, pipe dreams? Do we want warmth, and that no one leaves us? It's so natural to love, but for some reason it rarely coincides with the feelings of another.
This person once appeared in your life not for this, in order to bring peace and bliss into it. Rather, on the contrary, lightning discharges began to sound more and more often. But he is a teacher, by the way, like any other person who meets on the way. But this one is an exclusive teacher for life, just for you. If dark thoughts come up after communication - try to quickly turn them off. Translate the mood into a bright color stripe. Any positive anchor can be used for this, although it is difficult - it is easy to reason theoretically.
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