2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Go beyond yourself
“Whether you can or not, it's up to you to decide” is the motto of the film “Legend No. 17”.
In childhood, limitations are established by the family and social environment, which comes from the ideas about us. And then we ourselves lower our claims, not believing in our own potential.
Then the task arises - to recognize yourself and set a new limit for your own strength.
In doing so, it is important to take precautions so that the effort does not escalate into violence. As in the movie "Soldier Jane" under the motto: "There is no self-pity in nature", the children were brutally physically loaded.
It is also important not to fall into the opposite pole of Self-Pity. The psychology of the Victim dwells in this sweet-dangerous pole. Reveling in your suffering, you can not master the horizons that are on your shoulder.
To stay in a golden, healthy middle, you need to know yourself: temperament, nervous system, physiological capabilities, energy charge of the body, personality qualities and values.
It would be nice to know the mission - the task of life. In order not to get the following situation: your task is to heal people and for this, the appropriate abilities are given. And you have decided to become an Olympic triathlon champion.
Can you imagine what difficulties you will face on someone else's path.
Do you agree?
Expanding your own horizons
In the series “Molodezhka” the coach showed the team the game of hockey players without legs and said: “Their opportunities are limited, you don’t. You limit them to yourself."
In the film "Legend No. 17" Valery Kharlamov was seriously injured, which threatened to put an end to his career. The hockey player lost heart and began to drink. Then coach Tarasov took him to the morgue to consult with the guys. After that meeting, the hell of training to restore the lost form began.
And a year later - brilliant 1972, in which Kharlamov showed aerobatics of hockey and became a world favorite.
In the movie Peaceful Warrior, Den Milman's thigh was shattered into 17 pieces in an accident, which were connected with an iron plate.
An experienced coach put an end to him, as an athlete.
A friend told him: “You are either the Victim or the Winner. You are a Warrior, and a warrior acts. And Den started to act - to train.
And a year later, at the state competitions in artistic gymnastics, he set a new world record by completing the most difficult element.
The element consisted in the fact that the athlete makes a triple turn around himself on the uneven bars. And, gaining speed, flies up like a bird. Spins a triple somersault in the air and lands on both feet.
The hall, mesmerized by the skill and speed of flight, watched the landing with bated breath.
How do you like this expansion of horizons?
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