2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Much and detail has been written about the crisis of thirty years for women. However, the majority of popular articles rather fix not a "crisis" in its true understanding, as a chance full of danger, but a certain depression, depressiveness and despondency. At the same time, the crisis is what everyone needs, without it there is no growth. In short, it is necessary to distinguish between a crisis state (which may include, meanwhile, signs of depression, and fear, and disappointment) and a state of loss of hope and despondency.
I want to talk about the age of thirty from the positive side. The negative is known: disappointments, deficits, unjustified expectations, fears for the future. But there is another picture, very pleasant.
The positive aspects of this age are noted by not so few women. And it must be said that the life stories of these women are different.
By the age of thirty, many women finally feel fully fledged. By this age, many of the complexes inherent in youth are overcome. Angularity, unnecessary impudence, bravado, hiding terrible shyness, disappears. Timid turns into soft, traditionally feminine. Stubborn and domineering - in playful cats, skillfully disguising their true thoughts "at your expense" and achieving their goal more easily and naturally.
For the most part, 30-year-olds have already tried all kinds of hair colors, haircuts, make-ups, styles of clothing and came up with some of the most comfortable image of themselves. There is an acceptance of their imperfections, which skillful hands turn into a highlight. Shame for one's external imperfection is replaced by mild regret, which is not able to spoil the mood with every accidental reflection in the mirror surface. An understanding comes that the ideals of 90-60-90 are not achievable, even if you die of hunger and physical exertion, and the woman lets go of the ideal, trying not to be known as the first beauty, but as a woman who looks good.
In place of the illusions that gave rise to many emotional dramas, a sober assessment of the real state of affairs comes. Emotions become more controllable, true ladies' grace and beauty appear. There is no need to draw with all her strength the eight with her hips when walking, the woman feels how the hips move smoothly and naturally without any special effort.
By this time, male psychology is becoming more or less understandable, just like female psychology itself, which removes many of the questions that worried women earlier. Relationships with parents are stabilized, as everyone lives their own life. Professionally, the age of thirty can be an interesting start for some, and the beginning of a career for others. In relationships with girlfriends and women, in general, trusting accents are placed correctly, which allows you to avoid big disappointments and resentments.
Coquetry knows when and where it should show itself, and where it should shut up in order to avoid unnecessary claims and accusations. Scenes of jealousy no longer seem so necessary in a love relationship and cease to torment and spoil the mood. Until the age of 30, a woman is often not yet completely relaxed, does not know the "subtleties" of her body, do not get satisfaction from sex and simply imitate an orgasm. By the age of thirty, a woman finally understood what her superiority over men was, felt her charm and learned to bring sexual games to perfection. By the age of thirty, a woman reaches inner sexuality, becomes as liberated as possible, understands the desire of a partner well and tries not only to enjoy herself, but also feels how to make sex and mutual orgasm dizzying.
Despite the skepticism of some doctors - they say it is better to give birth before thirty - pregnancy at this age has its advantages. For many expectant mothers, the second trimester of pregnancy will be remembered for an unprecedented sexual appetite, and this is not strange: an increase in hormonal levels increases attraction.
From a conversation with a friend of mine who is approaching her thirtieth birthday:
- Before, I liked men who were necessarily educated, erudite, intellectually superior to me.
- Which ones do you like now?
- The ones who care about me.
There is an understanding of what is truly valuable and what is not. What is a fairy tale and what a reality. What a man should be respected for, and what should be despised for. In youth, often the merits are not properly appreciated, or even completely depreciated, the shortcomings seem charming and bewitching. At thirty, it is not so easy for a woman to show off, use, break her heart. This is not about the fact that the heart of a thirty-year-old is closed, walled up, hidden behind a layer of ice. The women I am talking about treat their heart with great respect and care and do not allow it to be easily broken.
Many women enjoying their age say that the world has expanded. It became clear that outside of “this work”, “this man”, “this city”, “this country” there is another world, there is another life, there are other people. Big world, interesting life, new people. And you can change your life, they are not afraid to take risks, since the biggest unpleasant adventure that can happen in life is the absence of any adventure.
Love your age and enjoy what it gives!
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