2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Yanina was born into a family of Leningrad engineers and spent all her childhood in a huge communal apartment on Rubinstein, almost opposite the legendary house of Sergei Dovlatov. Her youth fell on the heyday of the post-Soviet underground, when the creative elite still worked part-time in stoker rooms, where all the bloom of St. Petersburg youth gathered - writers, artists, musicians.
On the "apartment" in one of these stoker rooms, the girl saw a young artist. When she heard that the name of this talent with developing curls was Yan, Yanina no longer doubted for a minute that this was her destiny!
The girl was so smart and pretty that Jan did not even think to resist.
- You will be my Muse! He said in a soft tone that did not tolerate objection.
From that evening, the young people did not part.
- What a beautiful couple! How they love each other! - all around envied.
Ian was, indeed, unusually talented, just as extraordinarily lazy. Despite the presence of his beloved, inspiration rarely visited him and Yang never aspired to make money. Most of the time he spent lying on the couch of his tiny workshop in the attic and absorbing the leaden St. Petersburg sky with his gaze through the attic window, it was for this reason that his first wife left him.
Yoannina constantly worked somewhere part-time almost until the very birth of their first child.
When Grisha was born, perestroika was already striding across the country, like a cow licking all the old foundations with its tongue.
Yang still wrote a little of his talented paintings, and Yanina got a job in a cooperative to sew pseudo branded clothes and at the same time inspired and inspired. However, Gala did not come out of Yoannina, apparently the nerves were weak. Yanina began to break down on Yana
- Do you reproach your husband with a piece of bread? - Ian grumbled lazily, not getting up from his favorite sofa.
Realizing that there was nothing to catch in the collapsing Union, Yanina got ready for permanent residence, in the hope that there would be an opportunity for Yan to reveal his talent!
However, miracles did not happen in the Promised Land.
About thirty years have passed. Yanin is still pulling on himself, unsuccessfully married, Grisha, the youngest daughter Sonya and, of course, Yan, who has remained a promising artist.
- There anti-Semites interfered with you, but who is here? - Yanina grumbles without malice at his gray-haired and all the same lazy Yan
Did Ioannina draw conclusions? I think yes, only she is not going to change anything in her life.
Recently I wrote about the Muses of presidents, and even earlier, just about the Muses of great people
Muses of great politicians. What unites them?
Ugly Muses or How Self-Esteem Affects Life
We talked about the set of qualities that is necessary in order to inspire a man to great deeds. But not every man can be inspired to such feats.
A poorly motivated narcissist, which is Jan, is little capable of feats, how can you not inspire him! His laziness, rather a defensive reaction, he is clearly deeply traumatized, but this is not easier for Yanina!
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