2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Kristina Orbakaite has such a song, do you remember?
«There is no sun, the sun is gone …
I would cross out the sky so that my love fell asleep, In order not to meet her - again … »
My today's essay is about this psychological phenomenon …
… You look at a loved one and see someone else in him. Outwardly, everything seems to be the same: the same face, the same body, but inside GLOBAL SUBSTITUTION IS NOT THE ONE … Looks differently - past, speaks as if not with you - differently, not the same in his soul - different … Or?! …
Or maybe another one? Here it is! The content, the inner fullness has changed, and the mirror shell immediately reflects something else … We stubbornly do not recognize a once close person: he really has changed … The soul of a loved one is in another dimension … By analogy with the lines of another popular song: “And breaking anchors, your soul flies away …"
He and she. Solar eclipse
You do not want to believe in what happened, you are trying to wake up your once dear, precious soul, bring it back, to yourself…. And-and-and? You can't do it …
Oh-oh-oh … He would be glad, but he cannot, something has radically changed inside him and he has no control over his state: another has settled in his heart, everything is different now, all thoughts about one or the other …
The previous glow is impossible - ON THE FORWARD SIDE ECLIPSE.
He
There was a movement from one energy zone to another, his heart seemed to have moved and is located behind the equator of his previous life, in other meridians and parallels …
It hurts him! Do not doubt! Very, very painful! But in the former territories it is not … As if someone clicked on " OFF". Everything! As it will not be before. Well, what can he do about it ?! … Someone tell me?! … The soul is torn: Help! Call a doctor! Help!"
She
First sensations - sensations exploding inside the bomb, vital collapse, fatal, irreparable troubles (to survive in all this). As if a thousand bombers tore you into countless pitiful pieces with pinpoint strikes many times - you are lost, you are not, remained from the former reality some ruins, around ruins and devastation …
Yes, your unfortunate shell seems to be present in the material representation, but in the soul there is a graveyard.
Walking paradox: there is no life, the shell remains, you have to go - you have to - and you go …
And this maze of hells has just opened, it has to be passed to the very end - to withstand, endure, extricate himself and emerge victorious from it …
This path of martyrdom is the path of almost real, real war, in which it is important not to surrender to black despair and grief, but to defeat yourself, these damn circumstances and this terrible, fearful pain … And get out of aggression alive and unbroken … And melt the cold sediment, dissolve or hide it somewhere inside … Memory, do you understand? The thing is faithful, like a watchdog - holds for a long time, does not let go …
Completion of the process. Return of provisions
And yet, the process of the eclipse is temporary, and if you withstand this internal bombing, withstand this monstrous aggression of circumstances, the inevitable victory - over oneself and over yesterday's pitch grief, and-and-and recent the eclipse will recede, end, end … And then …
Then it will peep again Sun – will warm, shine, shine - and a new good life will come …
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