2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Our YES means nothing if we do not know how to say NO …
How often you:
Do you agree with someone, but at the same time feel that this is not your position?
Do you give up something in favor of another person and at the same time infringe on your interests?
⚠ "stepping on your throat"?
⚠ "betray your dream"?
Surely it happens.
And what do you get in return?
✔ meeting the expectations of others;
✔ stroking your own Ego by explaining that you have done a noble deed;
✔ internal dissatisfaction with yourself and your behavior.
And this is clearly not what makes you happy …
No! I am not urging you to live only by your desires and selfishly require others to consider only your benefits.
I suggest:
✅ do not betray yourself and your interests;
✅ do not allow yourself to be used;
✅ make decisions and respond to requests with the awareness of why and why you are doing it;
✅ Never say YES in order to look good in other people's eyes.
Your eyes, your feelings, your dreams, your interests are the most important!
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