2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I dedicate this article to respected misogynists and misogynists. How much can you hate each other ?! The funny thing is, they sincerely think so! Men sincerely, with all their hearts believe that "all women are fools", give birth to children from different husbands, and then live happily ever after on alimony. Women are convinced that "all men are goats", they change everything, they only think how to drag another innocent, naive victim into bed. And to read, watch the "dialogue" of such women and their opponents - so the heart bleeds from this sight of war to the last breath …
And what is behind this whole war of the sexes? What is hidden behind mutual contempt? Contempt is always a badly disguised hatred, and hatred is a three-component feeling: fear, pain, anger. Fear of being abandoned / abandoned, abandoned / abandoned, rejected / rejected, anger due to sad, traumatic experiences, pain from betrayal, coldness, detachment.
Both man and woman, in a dialogue full of mutual insults and accusations, are trying to prove that he (she) is the victim, but the opponent is the aggressor. What kind of arguments do the parties appeal to?
W: - You just have to sleep with someone, give birth to children, and then leave, rake it yourself as you want! Normal men are extinct!
M: - Themselves fools who give birth, let him think about contraception! Matriarchy was divorced! You should shake money out of men! Greedy, mercantile and corrupt!
What if you look deeper? Is this a conflict between a man and a woman? No, this is a conflict between a daughter and a father, a son and a mother. ALWAYS. In the face of men, we love, we need, but we hate dad. In the face of a woman, we crave the attention, approval, acceptance of the mother. Sexual conflict is a conflict between fathers and children. Only through this hatred it is difficult to separate the images, it is difficult to understand that, scolding a woman, a man scolds his mother. It is difficult to see that being angry with a man, a girl is angry with her father. Because childhood - it is either forgotten (or rather, repressed), or the child does not allow himself to be angry with the parent. On a parent - it is impossible, but on the opposite sex - as much as your heart desires! Sorry, not a soul … Ego!
Because the real, true desire of the soul is to be loved, loved. At first we do not receive this love from our parents, then, traditionally, as a result, from our partners. And we remain the same unhappy, small, offended boys and girls who are already thirty years old … The traumatized psyche, unable to survive the pain of rejection, "turns on" psychological defenses. And most often - depreciation. To stop wanting something (namely, love and acceptance on the part of a partner of the opposite sex), IT SHOULD BE DISCUSSED! According to the principle "Fox and grapes". I didn't really want to. The grapes are not painfully sweet!
Then women appear who live according to the principle "I myself!", Who declare that nowadays there is no hope for men. Men appear, shy of women, who have united in matriarchy and are trying to reduce the entire masculine gender from the white world. Well, isn't it nonsense, ladies and gentlemen !?
If you translate the dialogue that we saw above, you get something like:
M: - I really wanted to be loved by you, to give love in return, but I got burned … Now I'm just afraid to create new relationships …
W: - I also wanted to love and be loved, I wanted simple female happiness, but I didn't succeed. I'm scared to enter a new relationship, what if it hurts the same way again? I'm scared that you will offend me …
Let's call a spade a spade. I am not saying that NOT all goats, and that NOT all women are fools. I affirm that there are NO goats and NO fools, but there are deeply unhappy, lonely men and women who really want love, but are even more afraid that they will be hurt again …
(C) Anna Maksimova, psychologist
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